So two years ago, I was having back pain and my boyfriend recommended his chiropractor (we were under the same insurance plan, since we worked for the same company). Great doctor, bit of a creep. He said that if I received letters from my insurance company saying they weren't covering part of the total, not to worry because he typically billed more than he expected to get because he knew they'd always pay less than what he requested. He said he'd never make me pay the overload of what the insurance company didn't pay. So I got a few letters, but I ignored them. I was just out of college and had never really managed my own healthcare, so I just trusted him. Silly me.
A year passes (yep, a whole freaking year), and I was no longer living at my old address and had a new phone number. BF had already moved down to FL to start law school. I was visiting BF when I saw he had a letter from this doctor - I opened it up to find a letter to ME! Addressed to BF at his address. Yeah, totally a HIPAA violation as I had NEVER given this doctor permission to contact BF about medical issues (and how was he supposed to know if we were even still dating a year later?). The letter said I owed the doctor $400 or he was going to send it to collections. Newly unemployed, I was petrified and broke down crying and called him to find out what the heck was going on (I never should have called him). Through a series of voicemails that we exchanged (never actually spoke), he said that my insurance company wasn't paying him. I called the insurance, they said they'd pay him, but he didn't put my member code on the claim. So I got my member code from them (I was on a totally new insurance at this time), and called up his office and left my member code on his voicemail, telling him that the insurance company said they would pay his bill if he refiled it with that member code on it.
Then another 14 months pass... and he's calling me again! He's having this shy, quiet secretary call and make collections, so I feel bad yelling at her. So far, I've just skipped his phone calls (I screen my calls anyway) and they've gone to voicemail. But the jerk is saying I still owe him the money - where the heck has he been for 14 months?! I'm so furious, you can't believe it.
So BF (being the law student) wants to file a complaint with HIPAA about this doctor sending my confidential medical information to someone (BF) who had never been given access to that information by the patient (me). And he wants to file a complaint for insurance fraud, since the doctor had told us both separately on different occasions that he overbills the insurance company regularly. I just want the jerk to leave me the heck alone, but I'd hate to have him keep doing this to other people!
I'm debating calling him up and saying, "Listen, you jerk. Two years ago, you told me that you intentionally overbill insurance companies. Then you waited a YEAR after my last service to try to contact me about a bill the insurance company rejected - you sent a letter about my confidential medical procedures and billing to someone who I had NOT been given HIPAA authorization. After I magnanimously contacted the insurance company on your behalf a YEAR after the services had been rendered, they said they'd pay you if you included my member code. I called back and gave you my member code and did not hear from you for over a year. TWO YEARS! I doubt the insurance company will do anything for you now, this long afterwards, but I'll call one last time. But I will not pay you a penny - what I will do, if you don't stop harassing me, is report you for HIPAA violations for mailing my medical information to an individual who I had been dating when I was your patient and had no authorization, and for insurance fraud for the multiple times that you told me that you intentionally overbill them. So I'm going to call my old insurance company one last time, and then I never want to hear from you again."
Too much? How would you handle it? What would you say or not say? Would you report him for either the HIPAA violation or insurance fraud?

