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First Post to NYE

Hi everyone! I thought I should introduce myself. I have been checking out The Knot for a few years and as marriage is getting closer for me I think it is time to start connecting with poeple like me!

I am 28 and have been dating my BF for about 6 years. He is younger then me and just got his first teaching job so we are waiting a bit until he has worked and saved up some money. In the past 6 years we have probably talked about everything possible that deals with marriage and what we both want for the future. We both want the same things, it's just a matter of timing.

It can be very frustrating at times as my friends are getting engaged and married left and right! We have also decided not to live with eachother before we are marred so that can be tough. Although I know he is "the one" and worth the wait!!

So hello to everyone again! Smile
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  • edited December 2011
    Welcome! Where in upstate are you? I'm in Syracuse. I'm also a teacher in my first year. So yeah, welcome!
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  • katanne9katanne9 member
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    edited December 2011
    Ditto KD, where in upstate? I grew up in Rochester, getting married in the Finger Lakes (I've been living in Boston for 6 years now). My FI and I also do not live together, so I totally understand the boat you are in.

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  • 202987202987 member
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    edited December 2011
    Nice to meet you, and welcome!
  • edited December 2011
    I am in Rochester also. I love Boston, went to school there for a semester. So many things would be easier if we lived together but those are the choices we make right?

    Its great to meet everyone.
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  • hetshuphetshup member
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    edited December 2011
    Welcome  and soon you shall be awarded the patience prize. It's so wonderful that you are getting closer, hopefully you will have some great news for us sooner rather than later. 
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  • edited December 2011
    Awesome! I went to college right outside of Rochcha! And yes, those are the choices you make and only you can decide what is right for you!
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  • bajedivabajediva member
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    edited December 2011
    welcome! nice to 'meet'chya.
  • PaigeMcCPaigeMcC member
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    edited December 2011
    Welcome to the board! I'm excited to have another NEY to keep the few of us left company!lol

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  • edited December 2011
    Welcome :)

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    You seem sane; congrats!  And welcome to the board.  :-)
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  • PaigeMcCPaigeMcC member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_first-post-nye?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:6c7c28de-6de8-4109-a9a5-30edfa375e73Post:771472ee-e093-4de7-bf22-f22d354f5db2">Re: First Post to NYE</a>:
    [QUOTE]You seem sane; congrats!  And welcome to the board.  :-)
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    hahaha! I love the first thing we notice about new posters is how crazy they are!

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  • edited December 2011
    Eh, I've been on here a while (has it really been almost 2 years since I started lurking as a MOH?!  I seriously didn't post until I'd been lurking for 6 months because I was terrified of being labled BSC, even though I was here legitimately helping a friend plan her wedding). 

    I've seen a lot in that time though, and it's always nice to see sane people.
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  • MeganFaceMeganFace member
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    edited December 2011
    Paige you crack me up, but I agree, it's nice to have another NEY! :-)

    Welcome!
  • edited December 2011
    Thanks everyone for the warm welcome. I was afraid I would be labeled BSC! While I have my crazy moments, BSC I am not! It feels so nice already to have some people that know where I am coming from by being NYE. I also LOVE hearing about everyone's wedding plans!! I get some great ideas for when my time comes.

    Thanks ladies and I look forward to meeting everyone!
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