So, I feel Like I'm not ignoring the wedding anymore.
I visited my parents this weekend (the area where the wedding will be and half of the BMs live but all BMs are from) and got a lot accomplished.
1. Did a BMs dress shopping outting and all the girls have now ordered their dresses.
2. Went fabric shopping with my mom for overlays for the tables, so she is going to sew those for me.
3. Made a break through on centrepieces that appeases my mom and won't burn the tent to the ground.
4. Centrepieces are figured out, just need to gather some final items before updating the flowers order.
5. Did some wedding cake shopping. What is a reasonable price? Was the cake a big deal for you? FI could care less about the cake, so he isn't paying attention as much.