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    heyimbrenheyimbren member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_says-will-married-between-aug-oct-but-wer-arent-engaged?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:a59e58b3-e982-4129-b1e0-77beb6e4827ePost:de82c7bf-df70-4cbe-92ab-ce809a307e7b">Re: Says we will get married between Aug-Oct BUT wer aren't engaged!</a>:
    [QUOTE]Where did OP go?
    Posted by peekaboo2011[/QUOTE]

    Maybe she's hiding since Mutley scares <em>everyone</em> off from posting on here. /jokingsarcasm

    Sea, I love that picture.
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_says-will-married-between-aug-oct-but-wer-arent-engaged?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:a59e58b3-e982-4129-b1e0-77beb6e4827ePost:0380543a-5f73-4980-82e7-fe56b34d2e8f">Re: Says we will get married between Aug-Oct BUT wer aren't engaged!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Says we will get married between Aug-Oct BUT wer aren't engaged! : You're right, SeaTea, I did seem to take a little part of OP's comment and go off on that tangent. Sorry to all, I just have a friend who is always dating guys who won't commit and right now she is "so sure this current guy is the one" but he's twice divorced and 15 years older than her, and most likely will never commit to her, yet he continues to string her along because their current arrangement works great for him. Anyway, back to OP's question! That's what brought us all to this post, right? :)
    Posted by AmethystMSU[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>Yeah, my sister was with a guy for several years, they were engaged, but he really didn't want to get married. He started hanging out with girls until like 5 a.m. (which he had never done before) and changed his mind about wanting kids. He just really had a fear of commitment and I do think some individuals are afraid of marriage and drag out relationships. Not all, but some.Needless to say, they did not get married. </div><div>
    </div><div>I have to try very hard not to see her relationship when some posters request advice regarding reluctent BFs too. 

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    edited December 2011

    I told him I want to get married in 2011...so it's both of our decisions...we've talked about it a lot but not going to lie...we procrastinate on a lot of things.

    My bf is SUPER romantic for the record...I almost feel liket the guy in the relationship.

    I also want to say that back on October 2010 I found out his big proposal plan and then he found out I found out and well that ruined it for him...he says the proposal is super important to him but I think part of him telling me that I will get married this year right now is because he will be gone for a month and I'm beginning to think he had a proposal planned for this month (this going away thing was short notice from his work) and now he's worried he won't get to do it.

    I could plan a wedding in a week!  My only concern is the venue...you have to book one pretty far in advance...the rest is easy!

    Thanks for the advice :)

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    desertsundesertsun member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_says-will-married-between-aug-oct-but-wer-arent-engaged?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:a59e58b3-e982-4129-b1e0-77beb6e4827ePost:7f4a2d9c-e7a4-4729-9693-5d9cc7dedc99">Re: Says we will get married between Aug-Oct BUT wer aren't engaged!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Says we will get married between Aug-Oct BUT wer aren't engaged! : Yep, I grew up in and still live in the suburbs of Grand Rapids! My Mom grew up outside Detroit, too. Yay Michigan! :)
    Posted by AmethystMSU[/QUOTE]

    <div>Yes, Michigan! The feeeeeling's foreeeever! </div><div>
    </div><div>I grew up north of GR by about an hour. :)</div><div>
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_says-will-married-between-aug-oct-but-wer-arent-engaged?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:a59e58b3-e982-4129-b1e0-77beb6e4827ePost:cfd8f4a2-21b6-43dc-a1b6-de52535aba91">Re: Says we will get married between Aug-Oct BUT wer aren't engaged!</a>:
    [QUOTE]I told him I want to get married in 2011...so it's both of our decisions...we've talked about it a lot but not going to lie...we procrastinate on a lot of things. My bf is SUPER romantic for the record...I almost feel liket the guy in the relationship. I also want to say that back on October 2010 I found out his big proposal plan and then he found out I found out and well that ruined it for him...he says the proposal is super important to him but I think part of him telling me that I will get married this year right now is because he will be gone for a month and I'm beginning to think he had a proposal planned for this month (this going away thing was short notice from his work) and now he's worried he won't get to do it. I could plan a wedding in a week!  <strong>My only concern is the venue...you have to book one pretty far in advance...the rest is easy!</strong> Thanks for the advice :)
    Posted by secretbride1988[/QUOTE]

    So true! Honestly the only thing that involves months of planning is the many months of advance notice you need to book a venue, photographer, DJ, etc. You're right, you could definitely do everything in a month if you had to <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-smile.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" />

    Glad to hear your BF has big plans for the proposal! It is nice when they put thought into it and make it special. I hope he proposes soon after his trip!
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_says-will-married-between-aug-oct-but-wer-arent-engaged?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:a59e58b3-e982-4129-b1e0-77beb6e4827ePost:f51361a6-2091-45ce-a4b4-6f5baa3984c8">Re: Says we will get married between Aug-Oct BUT wer aren't engaged!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Says we will get married between Aug-Oct BUT wer aren't engaged! : Yeah, my sister was with a guy for several years, they were engaged, but he really didn't want to get married. He started hanging out with girls until like 5 a.m. (which he had never done before) and changed his mind about wanting kids. He just really had a fear of commitment and I do think some individuals are afraid of marriage and drag out relationships. Not all, but some.Needless to say, they did not get married. <strong> I have to try very hard not to see her relationship when some posters request advice regarding reluctent BFs too</strong>. 
    Posted by SeaTea02[/QUOTE]

    I'll have to keep that in mind when responding to posts <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-smile.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" />  Thanks for your understanding!
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    calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    Marley, I haven't given you my daily dose of love yet, have I?  I lurves you and your level headed logic!!!! Kiss

    SeaTea, that picture made me go all gooey and gushy for a minute.  SO CUTE!!!

    OP, I do get what you're saying, but the person you need to talk to is your boyfriend.  We can all hypothesize and theorize, but at the end of the day it means squat.  Sit down, tell him you want to marry him, you know he wants to marry you, but that if you're going to be planning a fall wedding you need to know 100% for sure if you both are ready to start making plans.  That said, if the venues are still available for this fall, they probably will be for another month or two at least, so it won't make or break your wedding planning to wait until he's back!  Deep breaths! 

    But do let him know your concerns and see what he says.  Ultimately it's a decision the two of you need to make.

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    marleylikeairmarleylikeair member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_says-will-married-between-aug-oct-but-wer-arent-engaged?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:a59e58b3-e982-4129-b1e0-77beb6e4827ePost:7f4a2d9c-e7a4-4729-9693-5d9cc7dedc99">Re: Says we will get married between Aug-Oct BUT wer aren't engaged!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Says we will get married between Aug-Oct BUT wer aren't engaged! : Yep, I grew up in and still live in the suburbs of Grand Rapids! My Mom grew up outside Detroit, too. Yay Michigan! :)
    Posted by AmethystMSU[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>Nice! Michigan rules, it's true. :)</div><div>
    </div><div><div style="font-family:Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;font-size:10px;background-color:initial;background-image:none;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;color:#1f1f1f;font:normal normal normal 11px/14px Arial, sans-serif;text-align:left;line-height:normal;">In Response to <a style="text-decoration:none;font-weight:normal;color:#1f1f1f;" href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_says-will-married-between-aug-oct-but-wer-arent-engaged?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:a59e58b3-e982-4129-b1e0-77beb6e4827ePost:c3791e5d-a3b8-441f-a24e-f1270e14ed9e">Re: Says we will get married between Aug-Oct BUT wer aren't engaged!</a>:
    [Lol I meant your own. I might start saving yours however. Always claiming the storm.
    Posted by SeaTea02[/QUOTE]
    </div><div style="font-family:Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;font-size:10px;background-color:initial;background-image:none;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;color:#1f1f1f;font:normal normal normal 11px/14px Arial, sans-serif;text-align:left;line-height:normal;">
    </div><div style="font-family:Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;font-size:10px;background-color:initial;background-image:none;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;color:#1f1f1f;font:normal normal normal 11px/14px Arial, sans-serif;text-align:left;line-height:normal;">Well, I will take that as a compliment! Thank you! (Especially after figuring out that what "claiming the storm" meant. <span style="line-height:14px;" class="Apple-style-span"><img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-smile.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" /> I don't mean to point out the error to be a jerk or anything. It just made me laugh!)</span></div>
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_says-will-married-between-aug-oct-but-wer-arent-engaged?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:a59e58b3-e982-4129-b1e0-77beb6e4827ePost:fb8ca4cb-6a93-4d15-b744-34f0519282a0">Re: Says we will get married between Aug-Oct BUT wer aren't engaged!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Says we will get married between Aug-Oct BUT wer aren't engaged! : Nice! Michigan rules, it's true. :) In Response to  Re: Says we will get married between Aug-Oct BUT wer aren't engaged! : [Lol I meant your own. I might start saving yours however. Always claiming the storm. Posted by SeaTea02[/QUOTE] Well, I will take that as a compliment! Thank you! (Especially after figuring out that what "claiming the storm" meant.   I don't mean to point out the error to be a jerk or anything. It just made me laugh!)
    Posted by marleylikeair[/QUOTE]

    <div>You are forever pointing out my typos or reading comprehension fails. However, I see why the spell check didn't catch that. </div><div>
    </div><div>Now stop claiming the storms! They belong to everyone. </div>

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    calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm so confuzzled... claiming the storm??? What did you mean to write?  My puny brain can't figure out the riddle.

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    desertsundesertsun member
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    edited December 2011
    I think she meant CALMING the storm.
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    calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_says-will-married-between-aug-oct-but-wer-arent-engaged?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:a59e58b3-e982-4129-b1e0-77beb6e4827ePost:e14ae055-1816-4375-8dc8-bc103b8f4f87">Re: Says we will get married between Aug-Oct BUT wer aren't engaged!</a>:
    [QUOTE]I think she meant CALMING the storm.
    Posted by desertsun[/QUOTE]

    That makes sense!  I kept trying to make "storm" into the typo, and it just wasn't working.

    I need sleep.

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    marleylikeairmarleylikeair member
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    edited December 2011
    LOL. Typos are funny.

    Sea, I don't mean to do it, I swear!

    Awww, Cate, now I'm all blushy! Thanks!

    GOSHDARNIT THOSE STORMS IZZ MIIIIINE!!! You can't haz any!!!
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