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Update on a post from awhile ago.

Hey, most of you probably won't remember me. I only posted once for advice a few months ago. My boyfriend (now FI) was basically having cold feet about getting engaged. Here's my post if you don't remember: http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_not-sure-think_.1

Well I decided to come back and update for those of you who might be curious about what happened! I did take everyone's advice to heart and really thought about it. I had a very, very long talk with him. He basically told me the realization that he would be with one woman the rest of his life hit him and he got nervous for a moment. But a couple days later when we talked (without me giving any ultimatums) he told me no longer wanted to explore what's out there that he just wants to be with me and couldn't be happier. 

He started to apologize for even bringing it up, but honestly I'm glad he asked me. It really just makes me trust him more to know that he is so honest with me about his thoughts and feelings. And really I can understand his momentary cold feet. I feel like our relationship got even stronger after this.

So fast forward a little over a month after this talk. December 14th, he proposes! We aren't planning on getting married until about a year after I graduate and have time to find a job. Which will be sometime in 2014. But I just wanted to share and update! I'm hoping to stick around these boards.

Also, feel free to ask questions, I would like to get to know everyone.

Re: Update on a post from awhile ago.

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    Congrats!

     

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    Thanks =)
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    Congratulations. I'm glad he got his head out of his tuckus and you two could talk about how he was feeling together.
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    Congratulations, I wish you the best.

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    I remember! Your picture is from your prom. See?

    Congratulations!
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    Congrats!

    Anniversary

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    Congratulations! I'm happy to hear it all worked out.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_update-post-awhile-ago?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:a7565bbc-7a4f-4053-a551-18c5584f71dcPost:b5990ad0-176b-4e91-95f8-acc51f503366">Re: Update on a post from awhile ago.</a>:
    [QUOTE]I remember! Your picture is from your prom. See? Congratulations!
    Posted by jenjenniferf[/QUOTE]

    <div>Haha, good memory! <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-smile.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" /></div><div>
    </div><div>And thanks everyone!</div>
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