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AW: The RING!

He couldn't even hold it a week!  He picked it up on Tuesday and immediately started plotting how to give it to me.  And I had totally written off this weekend as we had a BBQ on Saturday at a friend's place.

So I hopped in the shower mid-day on Saturday to get ready to go to the BBQ, and when I stepped out and opened the bathroom door, he was on one knee.  I burst into tears and launched into his arms.  He had to pry me away long enough to put the ring on my finger.  The only thing I remember is his goofy grin as he said, "Cate (full name), will you marry me?  Will you be my wife?"  And I said, "For serious?!"  I nearly fell back into the shower!  Haha, not my most eloquent moment!  And then I couldn't stop shaking and laughing for a good 15 minutes.

I thought he was just being spontaneous, so I figured we were still going to the BBQ (I had gone grocery shopping for beer and snacks already).  So he said, "Hurry up, we gotta get to Andrea's!"  So I got in the car, and we started driving, and he went the wrong way so I insisted on seeing the GPS to make sure the address was right.  And he stopped at a hotel to "check the address" except he got out of his car and handed his keys to the valet.  He had reserved a suite and had a bottle of champagne chilling in the room with a whole picnic - 2 kinds of cheese, salami, prociutto, french bread, olives, chocolate.  It was wonderful!  The BBQ was a rouse!  And it wasn't over - he put me in the car again and took me out for a wonderful dinner at a restaurant on the beach and toasted with champagne.  We had an incredible evening!










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  • Hazel_BHazel_B member
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    edited December 2011
    Aw Cate! That sounds amazing, so happy for you! Congrtulations!
  • edited December 2011
    Awww! Congrats and beautiful ring!
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  • MLekathLEENMLekathLEEN member
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    edited December 2011
    So you were nekkid?? LOL

    Congrats hunny! I love that ring!
  • calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_aw-ring?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:aee70853-c27a-46f0-9051-6120238f0ff7Post:f617e22d-1150-4da4-a4ff-2b4eceddf0f9">Re: AW: The RING!</a>:
    [QUOTE]So you were nekkid?? LOL Congrats hunny! I love that ring!
    Posted by MLekathLEEN[/QUOTE]


    Yup!  But the story for the 'rents is that I had a towel on.  Tee hee...  but I love that he was able to catch me totally unaware!  My family cracked up and laughed for a good five minutes when we told them.  They thought it was awesome, since I've been so cool with it all not being a surprise and he still managed to surprise me (well, at least catch me totally off guard!).

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  • Hazel_BHazel_B member
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    edited December 2011
    Cate, I love that you said "For serious?". I'm pretty sure I said "Does that mean what I think it means?" when I saw my ring.
  • edited December 2011
    Congrats Cate!  I'm so happy for you!  The ring is GORGEOUS!

    YAYYYYY!
  • Elle1036Elle1036 member
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    edited December 2011
    Aw, yay!  I like your ring a lot!

    Do you feel different now?
  • peekaboo2011peekaboo2011 member
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    edited December 2011
    Yay!  Congratulations!  That's an awesome story.

    Also, I LOVE the setting on your ring.  It's what I really wanted, and FI/the jewelers couldn't figure out how to do it.  But I still <3 it.
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  • calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_aw-ring?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:aee70853-c27a-46f0-9051-6120238f0ff7Post:873b1830-9cfa-44b2-9b8b-0bc16cd55630">Re: AW: The RING!</a>:
    [QUOTE]Aw, yay!  I like your ring a lot! Do you feel different now?
    Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

    Thanks!  I like my ring a lot, too!  It fit my great-grandma's diamond like it was made for it, and it didn't have to be resized at all.  It was honestly like the ring was just made for me!  And I'm happy to also say it was the least expensive of all the rings we looked at!

    I don't feel a bit different except I love my piece of shiny on my finger and don't like taking it off (I taught sailing today, so had to leave it at home).  And I love that my guy keeps calling me "fiancee" as he loves the term!  Otherwise, exactly the same.

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  • Elle1036Elle1036 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_aw-ring?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:aee70853-c27a-46f0-9051-6120238f0ff7Post:062340ce-94b6-41b1-a984-a3ba38c8624a">Re: AW: The RING!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AW: The RING! : Thanks!  I like my ring a lot, too!  It fit my great-grandma's diamond like it was made for it, and it didn't have to be resized at all.  It was honestly like the ring was just made for me!  And I'm happy to also say it was the least expensive of all the rings we looked at! I don't feel a bit different except I love my piece of shiny on my finger and don't like taking it off (I taught sailing today, so had to leave it at home).  And I love that my guy keeps calling me "fiancee" as he loves the term! <strong> Otherwise, exactly the same.</strong>
    Posted by calindi[/QUOTE]

    I was the same way, but I thought I'd ask because "do you feel different?" was one of the first questions my mom asked me.  She acted like I was on crack when I said no.
  • edited December 2011
    Love the proposal and the ring!! Awesome!
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  • desertsundesertsun member
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    edited December 2011
    Congratulations, Cate! Your ring is stunning!

    I know we've had our disagreements, but I hope you know that I sincerely wish you nothing but happiness. Please keep checking in to keep us up to date! :)


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  • Beads921Beads921 member
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    edited December 2011
    Yay! Congrats Cate :)
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  • SKP82SKP82 member
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    edited December 2011
    I love your story and your ring!  Congrats.  :)
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  • AudgiePodgeAudgiePodge member
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    edited December 2011
    Congrats
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  • calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_aw-ring?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:aee70853-c27a-46f0-9051-6120238f0ff7Post:0d6637cd-6cf0-4863-8e83-4c357197d4b8">Re: AW: The RING!</a>:
    [QUOTE]Congratulations, Cate! Your ring is stunning! I know we've had our disagreements, but I hope you know that I sincerely wish you nothing but happiness. Please keep checking in to keep us up to date! :)
    Posted by desertsun[/QUOTE]


    Desert, I appreciate that!  The disagreements are old news - I think you've always been respectful.  Agree to disagree and all that, with a little sarcasm and frustration thrown in.

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  • DanieKADanieKA member
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    edited December 2011
    Congratulations!!!!!!! What a sweet story! I cant wait to stalk your planning bio as you get into the planning!
  • edited December 2011
    congrats cate! i'm so happy for you!
  • Elle1036Elle1036 member
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    edited December 2011
    Oooh, when are you guys playing Monopoly?
  • marleylikeairmarleylikeair member
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    edited December 2011
    Aww! Big congrats! That is a hilarious story. And a very lovely ring.

    I would be so mad if BF proposed when I was naked. LOL. But with the surprise element, it's perfect for you two! :)

    So, no mention of the watch. Going to give it to him soon?
  • calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_aw-ring?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:aee70853-c27a-46f0-9051-6120238f0ff7Post:0a233902-94c1-4317-8805-4c4213e6a31a">Re: AW: The RING!</a>:
    [QUOTE]Aww! Big congrats! That is a hilarious story. And a very lovely ring. I would be so mad if BF proposed when I was naked. LOL. But with the surprise element, it's perfect for you two! :) So, no mention of the watch. Going to give it to him soon?
    Posted by marleylikeair[/QUOTE]

    Haha, I was a little peeved at first, but I actually kind of love the fact that I was naked!  It's just so quirky.  But yeah, the official story is that I had a towel on.

    Yes!  I'm going to give it to him soon.  I'm going to wait a week or two to throw him off, but I don't think he'll suspect a normal evening of board games - that's pretty standard for us.

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  • luvdncn90luvdncn90 member
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    edited December 2011
    I love your ring! It's gorgeous. Congratulations :)
  • PaigeMcCPaigeMcC member
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    edited December 2011
    Wow!! Love the ring, Cate.

    Congratulations

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  • edited December 2011
    congrats!! your setting either is or looks identical to the one i helped my best friend pick out for his now fiance (who is also my best friend) haha. i've obvi seen it in person and it is gorgeous!!
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  • edited December 2011
    Very pretty ring and great story. Congrats.
  • edited December 2011
    Congrats! and gorgeous ring!
     




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    Congrats!

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  • mandi921vhmandi921vh member
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    edited December 2011
    Congratulations! Cute proposal and gorgeous ring!
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  • edited December 2011
    Yay!  Congratulations!
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  • edited December 2011
    Awwww...what a story to share with the grandkids someday.  Congrats!
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