Ok, just a warning ... This is kind of a silly question.
For those of you who don't know, I'm about 3-4 inches taller than my FI. I couldn't find a cake topper with a shorter groom, so I'm having one made from an Etsy vendor. The vendor customizes everything. So, she's going to make the dress look like mine (sweetheart neck and halter) and put a birdcage veil on the bride. Now I'm thinking, do I show him the topper when it comes in? Would that kind of ruin the surprise or my dress and veil? Would he even make the connection that's what my actual dress will look like? Thoughts?