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Irrationally hostile customers are awesome! (A late-night vent.)

I'm going to DD this later, so please don't quote it--thanks.

So, backstory: I work in an office in the transportation industry. A week or two ago, I sent an email to a family member of a customer who'd left his cell phone on one of our vehicles.

He responded over a weekend and asked if he could get the phone. The office was closed, of course, so I wrote a very apologetic, polite email saying that we could ship it if he liked, and that I would look into shipping costs when I was back in the office.

He replied with an address where he wanted it sent. I wrote back politely, relaying the cost of shipping the phone (a very reasonable $3.25).

Here's what I just got back (edited for internet safety):

"For Christ’s sake, [my name].  My extended family, and  friends that we’ve told to take the [mode of transport], have probably spent thousands of dollars with [name of company], and you don’t think you can spent $5 to send me a phone?  If that money is so important to you just throw the phone away…and we’ll encourage people to [take competing transportation]."

Uh...what?! Does this guy think I make the rules, or that I actually see any of that money personally? Does he realize how much time I've now spent tracking down the owner of the phone, contacting him, and trying to arrange for its return? Does he not understand that this really isn't our problem; that I'm just following up to be nice? Does he think I magically know that he and his family have supposedly spent all this money with us? And even failing all that, what about a nice, polite email saying he's disappointed with this policy and is considering taking his business elsewhere?

WTH?! Honestly, I know I shouldn't take anything this a$$hat says personally, but this has thrown me for a bit of a loop tonight. BOO.

Re: Irrationally hostile customers are awesome! (A late-night vent.)

  • SopChickSopChick member
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    Firefox keeps eating my posts, but I'm persistent (and over tired, haha)

    I'm sorry you had to deal with a d-bag. People like that suck!

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  • marleylikeairmarleylikeair member
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    Aw, thanks, Sop. :) I am L-ingMAO at that first one. So perfect for the situation. Teehee.
  • tafft1tafft1 member
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    Yeah I totally understand what you are going through. I work in a hotel , and like many people - they forget things in their room. Unfortunately this is obviously not our fault , but gets turned into it lol. Some woman slept late and ran out of her room without any of her beauty products and DEMANDED we ship them next day fedex back to New York. We said sure , however we will need your credit card or fedex # to do so. The items are still sitting here since she feels its our fault..somehow. People are weird.
    I HATE when people pull the "Do you know how much money I bring in?" , yadda yadda..bleh..I just have learned to shrug it off.
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    Newb-ish question for you ladies... how do I add a pic to my siggy?
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  • marleylikeairmarleylikeair member
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    Ha, tafft, I'm sure you see a lot of this stuff! Crazy. I hope you have enough nice customers to make up for it. I just love that this guy played the money card, because his email address shows what his business is. I could spread this around if I wanted, and discourage clients from using *his* service!
  • marleylikeairmarleylikeair member
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    Sop, what I did was upload the pic to photobucket. It gives you HTML code to paste in your sig.
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    Thanks!
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  • marleylikeairmarleylikeair member
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    Sure! I look forward to your siggy showing up! :)
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    ...like I said, I should really go to bed instead of playing on my laptop
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  • marleylikeairmarleylikeair member
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    Sun, thanks for the input. I'm glad you are getting a reprieve from customer service. :) You make a good point about being nicer and not feeding their complexes. Hmm. I just went ahead and forwarded the email to my boss and asked how he preferred I handle the situation.

    Sop, I loves the new sig. :)
  • marleylikeairmarleylikeair member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_irrationally-hostile-customers-awesome-late-night-vent?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:b37c93b1-5c75-4cc7-a3ce-76b0f082bf3cPost:df60297e-56a8-40a7-a279-b99ca9e4b5b7">Re: Irrationally hostile customers are awesome! (A late-night vent.)</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Irrationally hostile customers are awesome! (A late-night vent.) : I can't lie about this, I'm glad for the break as well.  I've been in CS for a while, and as I told my boss when she said she was sad to see me leave: "It's a strong skillset, but it's not my strongest." I think you handled it maturely and with good judgement.  High road FTW.  Plus there's no moral crash later.
    Posted by sunbird627[/QUOTE]

    <div>Exactly, because your highest skill set is being awesome, not silly old CS. <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-wink.gif" border="0" alt="Wink" title="Wink" /></div><div>
    </div><div>Thanks for the encouragement on my handling method. :) That does make me feel a little better. I kind of can't wait for my boss's response. We tend to make dry comments to one another about crazy customers when we get b1tched out for no reason. We seem to get them fairly often, but this is one of the craziest so far! I think only the lady who wrote us a full-page letter about why we shouldn't let minors ride alone was the only other one who was this crazy. </div>
  • edited December 2011
    That guy sounds like a douche.  He should be thanking you, not being so rude.  I am so tired of working in customer service just because of people like this.  

    Sop, the new picture is freaking hillarious, I love it.  
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  • polkadot111polkadot111 member
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    What the heck. Sounds like a real gem of a person!
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  • alanna91alanna91 member
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    Ugh! Sorry you have to deal with that!
    I think it's best you forwarded it to your boss. That way if the customer still doesn't like the response, you can't get in trouble for handling it wrong.
    It's their fault for leaving the cellphone on the boss, they deserve to pay the shipping. Jeesh.
    If you get the chance, mention how you're going above and beyond by contacting him.
    34% of all riders of public transportation forget their phones on the bus. Only 11% ever get recovered. You're helping him be part of the 11%.
    99.5% of all statistics are made up, right? He won't know any different :P
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    Alana I like your stats! ;)

    Marley- I am so sorry.  That really sucks. I also work in customer service and people always have something nasty to say.  Just remember you are better then them! 
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  • tdwpg1984tdwpg1984 member
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    I feel your pain. I work in CS as well and the stories I could tell! I know none of the stuff clients say is directed at me personally, but I've still had clients who have made me cry... There's some clients where I wish we'd fire them as clients they're so bad. One client in particular has a very distinctive voice and has called supervisors bimbos and fat cows and C U next Tesdays. She's made most of my co-workers cry. Last time she called in she asked to speak to one particluar supervisor, who wasn't available, I told her I could assist her, but only if she treated me with respect. I told her the minute she insults me though I'm disconnecting the call. Her response "Whatever, you're probably a f***ing idiot anyways" and she slammed down the phone.
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  • marleylikeairmarleylikeair member
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    Thanks, you guys.

    Yikes, tdw, that lady sounds like a real peach!

    Alanna, I love the way you think. Wink
  • snorwo3snorwo3 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_irrationally-hostile-customers-awesome-late-night-vent?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:b37c93b1-5c75-4cc7-a3ce-76b0f082bf3cPost:59e6e4dc-0fe0-41fe-95fa-6a04a06003fd">Re: Irrationally hostile customers are awesome! (A late-night vent.)</a>:
    [QUOTE]I feel your pain. I work in CS as well and the stories I could tell! I know none of the stuff clients say is directed at me personally, but I've still had clients who have made me cry... There's some clients where I wish we'd fire them as clients they're so bad. One client in particular has a very distinctive voice and has called supervisors bimbos and fat cows and C U next Tesdays. She's made most of my co-workers cry. Last time she called in she asked to speak to one particluar supervisor, who wasn't available, I told her I could assist her, but only if she treated me with respect. I told her the minute she insults me though I'm disconnecting the call. Her response "Whatever, you're probably a f***ing idiot anyways" and she slammed down the phone.
    Posted by tdwpg1984[/QUOTE]

    <div>HOLY CRAP <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-surprised.gif" border="0" alt="Surprised" title="Surprised" /></div>
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