Hey Ladies!
So, my bf and I got an interesting wedding invitation on Monday. It's for my ex-bf's wedding. What makes it interesting is that he's marrying the girl that he cheated on me with, who happens to be a sorority sister and who used to be one of my really good friends.
A quick back story-
We started dating our senior year of high school and continued dating through our freshman year of college. We were in the same city, but at different colleges. We were together for about 2 years before he broke up with me for the other girl.
He met her though me, she was a sorority sister whom I went though rush/initiation etc. with. She and I became really close, so the ex and her knew each other quite well.
Right around our 2 year anniversary, he told me he found someone who made him happier than I ever could. He also said he could see a future with this girl and not with me. Needless to say, I was devastated but I didn't know who this other girl was. They both came to my apartment to tell me they were dating and I soon found out that they'd been seeing each other for about 6 months before that.
I quickly stopped speaking to her and him and tried to avoid them when possible...
I haven't seen either of them since we graduated college 4 years ago. I had no idea that they were still together until I got the invitation. So, I'm baffled as to why they'd send me an invitation.
My question is... should we attend the wedding?'
I know that some of my really good friends are attending and it would be a good time to catch up with them. I'm afraid that if we dont' attend people may think that I'm still angry/upset over the whole thing, when really I'm not. I'm so much happier now with my current bf and besides, this all happened about 8 years ago.... I've definitely put it behind me.
I'm torn because it was a nasty situation, but she was one of my best friends and now she's getting married and though she's marrying my ex, I'm happy for them!
So, any advice/thoughts??
..::..In dreams and in love there are no impossibilities ~Janos Arnay..::..
