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Bachelorette - Anyone watch last night?

What did you think?

Personally, I'm having a hard time watching Ashley. I just feel she is making some poor decisions.

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  • lunarsongbirdlunarsongbird member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm really beginning to dislike Ashley....Ugh... If I wanted to watch such a very insecure girl- I would look in the mirror.

    I can't believe that she has all these great guys in front of her and is still hung up on Bentley.

    Do you think she is going to end up with anyone?

    I'm also glad that William went home- he was really starting to irk me. I hated when he opened his mouth.
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  • Hazel_BHazel_B member
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    edited December 2011
    I don't understand why the producers don't show her his interview footage and ask, you really want him?

    I was disgusted that she had the guys fight eachother. I thought it was great to take them to the school and do training, but I think she took it too far. And, she's a moron to think that the guys wouldn't truly fight or atleast try not to look bad.

    Lunar - Who is your favourite? I have lots of favourites, but I'm liking Lucas and JP the most.  Mickey is exactly like my cousin - they look similar, talk similar and have the same mannerisms - it is weirding me out a bit, so I can't tell if that is why I like him.
  • Hazel_BHazel_B member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh, and Ben...I like Ben too.
  • SKP82SKP82 member
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    edited December 2011
    I was a little shocked that she sent Ben C home after William badmouthed him without even asking him about it first.  So, yes, I agree that she is making some bad decisions.

    How in the HELL can she think Bentley is "the one??"  And from the preview of next week, it seems that he is going to continue to string her along.

    I really like JP.  And I really like how smart Ames is.
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  • lunarsongbirdlunarsongbird member
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    edited December 2011
    I like Ben F- he's the wine guy, right?
    I also like JP a lot.

    Oh- and Ryan P. The solar guy.
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  • Hazel_BHazel_B member
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    edited December 2011
    SKP - You are so right about her decision on Ben C. I couldn't believe she didn't even ask him about it.

    Also, when she asked Constantine (?) if he felt closer to the guys than her. She is setting herself up for disappointment. These guys are around eachother 24/7 and have gone on maybe 1 one on one date and the rest be group dates. For someone so smart, she sure does dumb things.
  • lunarsongbirdlunarsongbird member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_bachelorette-anyone-watch-last-night?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:b6c2073c-e5d2-4e4b-bc26-2e3a4affa716Post:571c645e-549f-4f05-be47-cf6d6268533a">Re: Bachelorette - Anyone watch last night?</a>:
    [QUOTE]<strong>I don't understand why the producers don't show her his interview footage and ask, you really want him? </strong>I was disgusted that she had the guys fight eachother. I thought it was great to take them to the school and do training, but I think she took it too far. And, she's a moron to think that the guys wouldn't truly fight or atleast try not to look bad. Lunar - Who is your favourite? I have lots of favourites, but I'm liking Lucas and JP the most.  Mickey is exactly like my cousin - they look similar, talk similar and have the same mannerisms - it is weirding me out a bit, so I can't tell if that is why I like him.
    Posted by Hazel_B[/QUOTE]

    Agree. Was it the last season of the Bachelor- when a girl hooked up with a member of the Bachelor staff and they sent her packing? I don't see how that is much different.

    They told Brad they discovered one of the girls wasn't there looking for love and sent her home...obviously Bentley isn't looking for love either.

    I think they are keeping him around for the ratings.
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  • Hazel_BHazel_B member
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    edited December 2011
    it looks like the other guys get angry next week about the Bentley situation.
     
    I wonder if some will leave on their own, that is what my FI is hoping. He really had an issue with her setting up the boxing thing and thought it was really exploiting them, that something similar wouldn't have been done to women on the Bachelor.
  • Hazel_BHazel_B member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_bachelorette-anyone-watch-last-night?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:b6c2073c-e5d2-4e4b-bc26-2e3a4affa716Post:a79caa4f-7e32-429a-9f47-956112a2b1f1">Re: Bachelorette - Anyone watch last night?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Bachelorette - Anyone watch last night? : Agree. Was it the last season of the Bachelor- when a girl hooked up with a member of the Bachelor staff and they sent her packing? I don't see how that is much different. They told Brad they discovered one of the girls wasn't there looking for love and sent her home...obviously Bentley isn't looking for love either. I think they are keeping him around for the ratings.
    Posted by lunarsongbird[/QUOTE]

    I agree, but maybe there was something in the contract that prevented her from what she did but not what Bentley is doing?
  • lunarsongbirdlunarsongbird member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_bachelorette-anyone-watch-last-night?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:b6c2073c-e5d2-4e4b-bc26-2e3a4affa716Post:2b63ecd8-d791-4507-a30d-31fc9166432c">Re: Bachelorette - Anyone watch last night?</a>:
    [QUOTE]it looks like the other guys get angry next week about the Bentley situation.   I wonder if some will leave on their own, that is what my FI is hoping. He really had an issue with her setting up the boxing thing and thought it was really exploiting them, that something similar wouldn't have been done to women on the Bachelor.
    Posted by Hazel_B[/QUOTE]

    My BF thought the same thing! Andrew secretly really like The Bachelorette.

    Could you imagine if they made women do mud wrestling or something?
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  • edited December 2011
    I agree...Ashley is getting on my nerves. I personally like JP, Ames, Ben F and Lucas (in that order). BUT i'm starting to feel like she doesn't deserve any of them. I can admit...we've seen a side of Bently that Ashley doesn't even know exists at this point. However if someone chooses to leave, especially that early on...just move on and let it go.

    She's starting to come off like a whiny brat to me, and I did like her at one point.
  • edited December 2011
    I like Ashley.  She's insecure.  She's human...she's allowed to be insecure.  We all are.  I just really hope she comes to terms with the fact that she did not fall in love with Bentley.  She lusted after him and she liked the IDEA of Bentley.  That doesn't sustain a relationship.

    She has some genuine keepers left in the bunch.  I love her and JP.  I also really love Ames.  He's such a gentleman.  He's smart...and he's good looking.  Those are my top two.
  • cu97tigercu97tiger member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm with most of  you, Ashley is REALLY geting on my nerves lately. I feel like she needs one of those 'he's just not that into you' interventions. I mean, he chose to leave after like two weeks. Granted, he's clearly a good con man, but she was warned about him from the beginning, more than we've seen from what Chris Harrison's blogs say...

    Anyway, JP is my favorite, then Ben (the winemaker). She really has some chemistry with those two. But honestly, I don't think she ends up with any of them. I think she is so mind-f&%ked by Bentley that she can't make a rational decision. Plus the guys have every right to be pissed at her for seeing him again after HE made the decision to leave.
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