I am getting married on April 13th, 2013 and I already have alot of the planning complete. I already have the place (having wedding and reception at the same location), the cater and the photographer! I also have the ceremony pretty much planned out. The only thing I am having problems with is how to include my finance's son. He will be 17 by the time we have the wedding. I want to include him in the ceremony because I am not just starting a life and family with his father but also with him. I am doing a sand ceremony in the wedding but I kinda only want my mom and my finance's mom involved in that. Anybody have any ideas on how to include him?