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Vibes are needed

IrishDreamerIrishDreamer member
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Well ladies,

BF & I are in need of vibes, thoughts & prayers.
 BF's mom's dad passed away a few weeks ago, and now this afternoon, about an hour ago - his dad's mom passed away. We all expected it, as they stopped heroic measures, as well as life-prolonging measures, but it's still hard. Next to me, Grandma Smith was BF's best friend. He says he is okay, but I don't think it has hit him yet.

BF says he is okay because he was expecting it, she was ready to go a long time ago. Which is true.

Her kids were all with her, she went peacefully, and she didn't suffer. So that is good.

I'm just worried about FFIL, BF and FMIL as she is still dealing with stress from her dad passing, and now HER MOM is in the hospital - it's been a hellacious week.

So, I'm asking for your vibes to help us get through this shiittastical weekend and week, as now Thanksgiving is going to be sad.

Thanks Ladies. This is a bit of P&R as I need to leave work and get home to BF and see what I can do to help.

<3<3
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  • becunning2becunning2 member
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    edited December 2011
    Vibes are being sent your way!
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  • Elle1036Elle1036 member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry. Sending vibes to you, your BF, and his family.
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  • lennonkdclennonkdc member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm sorry for your BF's loss. Vibes are being sent your way.



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  • cu97tigercu97tiger member
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    edited December 2011
    Vibes! FI lost his grandmother who practically raised him back in April. He never did show much emotion about it after the first week, but I know he still thinks about her from time to time. I know it's hard for you to see him hurting, so I'm praying for you both!
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  • jaycee7389jaycee7389
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    I'm sorry for your loss :( Vibes sent your way <3
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  • Ollie08Ollie08 member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh Irish, I'm so sorry... I'll keep you and BF's family in my prayers.

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  • kellyt89kellyt89 member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry! You, your FI and his family are in my thoughts and prayers!
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  • SopChickSopChick member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry to hear all of that. My thoughts are with you, your BF, and his family.
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  • peekaboo2011peekaboo2011 member
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    edited December 2011
    Vibes headed your way!  You know how to get me if you need to talk.  <3 you
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  • tuarceathatuarceatha member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm sorry for your loss.
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  • elanniselannis member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry. T&P headed towards you all.
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  • IrishDreamerIrishDreamer member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm glad to see she isn't suffering, but the whole surrounding situation is terrible. It's way too long and drawn out to explain, but it's going to be a rough week. I love you ladies, and am very grateful for your love and support. It means the world to me. 


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  • bsidebellabsidebella
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    edited December 2011
    I am so sorry for your BF's family ... sending good vibes to you and them <3

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  • ravenrayravenray member
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    edited December 2011
    *hugs*  I am praying as you know.  Love you my dear.  Let us know if there is anything we can do!
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  • Peaseblossom55Peaseblossom55 mod
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    edited December 2011
    so sorry to hear, thoughts and prayers to your family.

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  • SwazzleSwazzle member
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    edited December 2011
    Aw Irish, I'm so sorry.  Sending t&p to you guys & :::hugs:::



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  • polkadot111polkadot111 member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm sorry. That's tough.

    Lots of vibes
    and a giant hug!
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  • lavenderfields13lavenderfields13 member
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    edited December 2011
    Sending vibes your way  :( so sorry
     




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