I didn't think

**Mutley**

I'd be this upset. 

On to my 2nd glass of wine... and DH is on his way home with salami, brie and french bread.

At least I can have wine.  Bright side?



Now, I understand why people get so stressed out trying.  I am far from there, but I can understand.  This is a rollercoaster unlike any other.  

Ana_2985

Oh no. I'm sorry you didn't get good news and that you're upset. 

I really don't know what to say, except I'm sure it will happen for you when it's the right time.

In the meantime, enjoy the wine while you can!

sapphirebaby926

Oh I'm so sorry you didn't get the news you wanted


Like Ana said it'll happen when the time is right

Enjoy the wine - I'm about to pour myself a glass as well

ericswifey

I'm sorry you are upset. Just remember that God has a plan and it will happen as it is supposed to happen. **hugs**

oceana919

So sorry to hear that you didn't get the news you wanted, dear

I'll keep my fingers crossed and you in my prayers...it will happen when it's meant to!

Button5807

So sorry to hear that.

Just relax and enjoy your wine, getting super stressed is probably the worst thing to do in these situations.

I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and my fingers are still crossed. :-)

jeanacorina

Just try to relax, it'll happen!

I'm sure it sucks to be disappointed, but it could happen anytime! The best thing you can do is relax and don't stress out. Stress can screw up your cycle.

Oh, and the other best thing you can do is have sex all the time (obviously)! Which is a great stress reliever. So, there you go-- two birds, one stone!

notquiteblushing

Oh I'm so sorry Mutley! 

I wish I saw this last night so I could have drank some wine with you.

Don't let it get you down for too long.  Think of how fun "trying" can be.

jeanacorina

That's right! The "trying" part is a blast! Focus on that and everything else will fall into place.

**Mutley**

Thanks, gals.

I feel a lot better this morning.  Honestly, I would have been shocked if I got knocked up our first month trying.  It would have been nice, but oh well.  

Just a warning that when you are TTC, you are more in tune with your body than you even think you could be.  And you notice EVERY little thing.  And all of those stupid little things are also signs of pregnancy.  However, it is just you being more in tune with your PMS.  So you go through this rollercoaster of "Am I? No I'm not.  Maybe?" and your emotions are all over the place.   

And yes, Jeanna - that is the BEST part. 

Acrosthec

And again I got here late.

So sorry Mutley, but I'm glad you're feeling better!  It'll happen when it's meant to!  And Jeana's right, enjoy the "trying," and the wine (for now), and try not to stress out over it.  Stress will just complicate your system entirely.

Fingers are still crossed for you!

desertsun

I can see why you'd be upset, but sounds like you're on the upswing. And also like your DH knows how to cheer you up and remind you why you want to have babies with him. Stay positive! Like everyone said, it'll happen when it's meant to. Good luck!

babybchbum

I'm sure everything will happen when it is supposed to.

GL and enjoy the "trying" and your wine. I'm glad you woke up this morning and are happier.

Goldlie11

I'm glad you are feeling better.  It's great that you have a positive attitude.  I must have missed this post last night.  I am sorry that you didn't get to conceive this month.