We are planning to be engaged with in the next few months. (Thinking by April.) His family hates me. Does anyone else have this problem? What do I do? I hate the way they make me feel, I hate how they treat me, and I hate knowing that I have to see them. I told my boyfriend that when we get engaged that I am only telling one person. A girl that I grew up with. I figured what I would do is wait for the summer have the engagement photos done. Send them out to everyone and then not answer the phone once they all have been recieved.
Example #1:
Tonight I got a phone call from his parents. I didn't answer it because of that horrible feeling you get in the pit of your stomach and that panicky feeling. About 30 seconds later I was composed and figured it must of been an accident or that they wanted to get a hold of my boyfriend because it was an emergency. So I call them back and they ignore me. So I sent a text stating "Sorry I missed the call. I'm assuming that it was an accidental dial. Just wanted to make sure you were ok." They ignored that too.
Example #2:
I haven't seen his parents since May. Right before my birthday. My great grandmother had just died the day before. And the plot she paid for was with her parents with a headstone she had chosen including her name. The church buried another person in my great grandmothers spot. And they didn't know who the female was in the plot. My family and I was very upset about this. My boy friend tells his mother that I am heading home for a few days and what was going on. Instead of a normal conversation she decided to try to have an argument with me. Her main point of the argument was "Who cares she's dead anyway."
I want my boyfriend to say something to them about how they treat me but he never does. He cowards down to them and becomes like a child. I'm really frustrated and I have no one to talk to about this.