First of all, Happy Monday, I hope you're working a shortened week.
I need some direction on an issue I'm having and you're my favorite people to get advice from so away we go.
My brother is going on his 5th year of being a Marine. Every year he's been in he's been stationed on the other side of the country and working on Christmas so he's missed it. This year he's only a 5 hour drive from home and because Christmas is a long weekend he wouldn't even have to take leave to come see us.
I was really upset when I found out that my father wouldn't be around on Christmas day but I countered it by telling myself that my brother would. Turns out though that, that will not be the case because he "doesn't feel like making the drive." So I offered to buy him a train ticket and he declined. He'd rather stay in DC, where he has no family and hardly any friends than visit his own family for Christmas for the 1st time in 4 years.
I'm devestated. I'm also so angry at how selfish he's being. There's a really good chance this will be our only grandmother's last Christmas (if she even makes it) and he's going to miss it. My mother is going to spend the entire day worrying about her "baby" being all alone for the holiday, so she'll be sad, mopey and preoccupied the entire time.
Part of me wants to seriously kidnap him, part of me wants to rip him a new one and the rest of me wants to curl up in the corner and cry. The holidays have always been kind of a sore spot in our family but we try our best to make the best of things. I just wish that he wasn't the sore spot this year.
Should I just suck it up and deal?
Should I push the issue further with him?
"but you're SO FUNNY, button! you're so funny i kind of want to crawl into your skin and wear it as my own. " - NarwhalYou, my dear, are the Queen of the Beebees. Here's a tiara
- Oceana