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Today, I witnessed something terrifying.

I'm on vacation in Seattle.

Today we went to Pike Place for a couple of hours before my friend Casey went to a doctor's appointment. As we were walking to catch the bus to Queen Anne, we witnessed a man on a motorcycle being run over by an amphibious vehicle, one of those stupid Duck tours of Seattle. He was first in line at his lane on the intersection. The light turned green and instead of waiting for him to go, the amphibious vehicle went first and ran him over. His motorcycle flew to one side and stayed by the curb and he was dragged under the vehicle for about twenty feet. The vehicle got all the way across the intersection before stopping.

As soon as it stopped dragging him, I sprinted over there and got on the ground next to him. Another chick called 911 and a guy stood over me. At first, I honestly thought that he was dead. Initially, he did not respond when I touched his shoulder, but we all started talking around him and he came to. He said that he was alive and I told him that I was a registered nurse and that I was going to stay with him until the medics arrived. I had him move his toes (which he did successfully) as well as his fingers. He told me his lower back really hurt and that his left arm was totally f*cked because the vehicle had run over it. He was moving his head and neck fluidly and speaking clearly. Fortunately he was wearing a helmet as well as proper riding attire including thick leather gloves. He told me that he was in a lot of pain so I led him through guided breathing.

The medics got there in about five minutes and the police cleared us away. One of the officers asked if any of us had seen what happened and about three of us volunteered that we'd seen it. The cop got my contact information and I explained what I saw, but honestly it was a blur. I knew as soon as I saw him hung under that damn thing, I needed to run to him because I didn't know if any other medical personnel were on hand (I guess there weren't, as I was the only one who got really close to him?). It's a rule that once you identify yourself as medical personnel, you have to stay with the victim until you're able to pass him off to the next stage of personnel.

I tried to talk about it with Tyler, our friend Andrew and Casey. I think that Casey was the only one who was affected by it like I was because he followed me to the guy and was not five feet away from me as I was down by him. Andrew and Tyler stayed across the street on the corner because they didn't want to crowd him. Tyler and Andrew made light of the situation and cracked puns all day whilst Casey and I sort of kept to ourselves. It actually really upset me and I know that it upset Casey because he mentioned it over dinner. Casey's always better at stating his opinions. I think that Tyler shows he's upset by something by joking about it, but it really was serious. It's difficult when people have different ways of expressing their horror.

I can't sleep now though. I have that tightness in my chest that comes from being scared. I keep thinking how badly this would have gone had that man not been wearing his helmet and good motorcycling clothing. His helmet was stuck in the undercarriage of that vehicle -- would we have been witness to a decapitation? How does one recover from seeing something like that? If he'd been sh*ttily dressed like a lot of motorcyclists, wearing a t-shirt and a light jacket, how much blood would have been scraped across the pavement? Would his arm have been in smeared pieces on the ground because it wasn't encased in two layers of leather? If he didn't have one of those nice face screens on his helmet, would the roughness of the pavement have taken his nose off? Would he have broken his chin and been unable to talk to us and tell us how he was feeling? What if it hadn't been raining -- would he have had that face screen down? What if the force from the vehicle hitting the motorcycle had sent it spinning into the people standing on the corner, as there were a lot of people there waiting for the crosswalk to change?

I'm horrified by the thoughts that are going through my head, all of the outcomes avoided by him being a rider conscious of the dangers involved with driving a vehicle that doesn't completely encase him. It could have been so much worse and I can't stop thinking about it, I just can't. I don't have any sleeping pills with me, so I can't force sleep, but I also don't think I'll be able to sleep naturally tonight, or at least I won't sleep restfully. I know from the news that he's been upgraded from serious to satisfactory, but it's still bothering me.

I just had to get this off my chest. Maybe talking about it will help. It's just really scaring me even though it's been almost twelve hours now. I also keep thinking about how I was possibly the only medical personnel in that massive group of people who were wandering about that part of town at that time. I was alone. There was no doctor, no other nurses, just me. I thought that there were always more of us, but not in this case.

It's just very scary. I hope I never have to see this ever again.

Re: Today, I witnessed something terrifying.

  • elanniselannis member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh, I'm so sorry you had to witness that! It is great that you were able to overcome your fear to rush over to help him as long as you could before the rescue team got there though. I think the only thing you can do now is to thank whatever you believe in that he WAS wearing all of that gear. As for the joking about it, maybe you can just let them know that you'd rather not hear about it anymore?
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  • peekaboo2011peekaboo2011 member
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    edited December 2011
    Stillwell, I don't even know what to say.  I'm glad he's going to be okay, but wow.  And good thing you were on hand.  But still.  *hugs* 
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  • edited December 2011
    I'm sorry you had to see that Stillwell...but think how lucky is the motorcyclist that you were there to help and keep him calm while he waited for the paramedic. I once witnessed a small car that was wedged under a semi being dragged through an intersection. About 2 months ago at BF's brother's wedding I found his uncle completely unconscious in the bathroom, barely breathing. Both of those situations worked out ok, but it was scary. I'm one that is always calm and collected during the moment, but later I have a bit of a break down. Everyone handles these types of situations differently. I know the humor thing can be off-putting (it is for me too), but try to understand that Tyler and Amdrew weren't right there with the guy so they may not feel the same way you do about the whole thing. Eventually your mind will let some of the stress from all this go and you'll get the rest your need. *hugs*
  • becunning2becunning2 member
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    edited December 2011
    Wow stillwell, just wow. How horrible for you and the motorcyclist. But it's good that you were there for him--that he was wearing his protective gear--and that you had training that was useful for him. This experience was obviously very traumatic for you, and I'm very sorry about that.

    Do try to NOT let yourself spiral into the what-if thoughts you're having. Every time you start to go down that route, try to repeat to yourself:  "He was wearing a helmet; he was wearing proper head gear; he's going to be fine." YOu'll probably have to repeat it a LOT, but it might help you from spiraling downt he what-if thoughts.

    Hugs. T&P to you and the motorcyclist. And if it bothers you, tell your friends to express their unease about the situation with jokes -- just not in your presence.
  • edited December 2011
    Thats an awful thing to have to witness....but think of how comforting it must have been for that man to have you at his side, helping him through those moments before the ambulance arrived. You can drive yourself crazy thinking about what could have happened, and it's perfectly natural to feel shaken after something like this. Men deal with these kinds of things differently, but certainly let them know that you don't appreciate them joking about it around you. 
    I'm one of those people who likes to believe everything hapens for a reason. This man was dressed properly and survived this incident cause he was meant to.
    One thing is for sure, if I was ever involved in a serious accident, I would definitely want someone like you to be close by.
  • alanna91alanna91 member
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    edited December 2011
    Thank goodness you are an RN. Imagine how much more scared he would have been if you hadn't run up to him immediatly? Or if someone who wasn't medically trained tried to help him and did something stupid...like have him sit up or something?
    Think about that instead. Think about how much better it was for him that you were there, rather than how horrific it would have been if he wasn't using the proper safety gear. Because that didn't happen. He was safe. You were there for him. You're just going to upset yourself because you went through a really traumatizing event. Thank goodness for you being there, and I'm sure he's thinking the same.
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  • lunarsongbirdlunarsongbird member
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    edited December 2011
    Once, I saw a motorcyclist hit the back of a car at a red light. The tailpipe went through his helmet and died.

    I immediately felt the urge to talk to someone about this. I waited outside of my community college for the bus to come (which I knew was going to be a bit late- because of the accident.)- I wanted to see if anyone else wanted to talk about what they just witnessed.

    There is still a roadside memorial for him on the overpass...

    I think our reaction is also why you see so many postings on Topix: http://www.topix.com/forum/city/livermore-ca/T47136AKE6EAJS25U

    I'm sorry you had to witness this traumatic event. Might you consider some GABA, Ativan, or other anti-anxiety med to take off the edge for the next couple days?
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  • lennonkdclennonkdc member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm sorry you had to witness that, and that others are making light of it. I don't know what else to say really. That man was lucky, not only to have been so responsible/ protected, but that you were there to help him and make sure he was ok. 



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  • SopChickSopChick member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry you had to witness that Still. As the other ladies have said, I know it's difficult, but try to focus on the positive side of the situation. He had the proper gear, you were there and reacted appropriately and quickly, and now his condition has been upgraded to satisfactory. Like becunning said, try to change the direction of your thoughts when you notice them going into the what-ifs. As for the people joking about the situation, I don't think it's unreasonable at all to ask them not to do it around you.

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  • leia1979leia1979 member
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    edited December 2011
    Stillwell, how horrible. That man was so lucky that he was well-protected by his gear and that you were there to help him. You did a great thing for him. I know it's because you're trained, but a lot of people run the other way rather than help.

    Focus on the fact that this guy made it, and you did a great deed by helping him. Is there possibly a counselor you can talk to as well?

    Regarding the guys and their comments, just tell them they are making you uncomfortable. I would hope they'd respect that.
  • Elle1036Elle1036 member
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    edited December 2011
    Thank you for helping him. You're a good citizen. I understand how you're feeling. I felt the same thing (though much diluted) as I read your post. I think it's just going to take time for you to feel normal again. Hugs.
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