I am pretty sure my bf is going to propose in the next couple of months. We've been ring shopping several times, he's talked about how if I want to lose weight for engagement photos that I might not have as much time as I think, and other stuff like that. The other day he asked if it was rude to ask my dad for his blessing even if he already bought the ring (he says hypothetical situation), and then yesterday tells me he almost asked my dad for his blessing but didn't feel the moment was right. I don't know if he's telling me this to throw me off or if he really didn't ask and it just keeps making me think about it any time he brings something like that up. I told him it's like a kid at Christmas except I don't know when Christmas is, lol. So I asked him to stop mentioning things like that.
So my question is: Would you rather know these things or not know? I am trying not to focus on this because I want it to be a surprise, but it's hard when he keeps giving me clues!