BF is not a planner. In his perfect world he would wait until two days before any event to nail down the details. I am not like this. I'm anal retentive when it comes to planning because I'm a worrier. I'm working on it, but it's the truth and I'm a big enough person to admit that.
Our anniversary was in July and BF's gift to me, in conjunction with my birthday gift, was a wine tasting tour. He knew this is something I was interested in trying so he wants to do this for me.
I've let this be his thing. I've resisted the urge to plan. My birthday is 11/11 which is a Thursday this year so he mentioned going on that Thursday and Friday. That's fine but I'd have to take time off work. At the beginning of September I asked him if he could know what days we're going and have at least hotel reservations by the 9th of this month. I wanted to know exactly what days we'll be there so I can ask for the time off a month in advance and the tour is pretty popular in the fall.
Last Friday rolled around and it was the first time I brought it up since I had initially asked in September. Nope, nothing planned, no hotels, nada. He says, "It'll be done by Monday." So I asked him last night (after watching Glee of course) nope, not done.
Realistically I know there's probably still time to score a hotel room. What is driving me nuts is this is something I asked him to do and he agreed to. When I initially asked to have it planned out I just said the first few weeks of October, he asked for a specific date I would like it done by, I gave him one and he blew it off.
I'm irked. I've told him I'm irked. I don't want to take the reins on this, like I said it's his thing. I feel like if it's going to get done, I'm going to have to be the one to do it and I don't want to. 