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Honors sash girl is back...

I lurk on this board from time to time and I have noticed that you ladies post a lot about italy thomas and she posted an update:

http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_am

I don't even know how to react to this... that poor girl.
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  • pinkpinotpinkpinot member
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    edited December 2011
    OMG.

    No no noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!! Please make it stop!!!!!
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  • PaigeMcCPaigeMcC member
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    edited December 2011
    OMG! *runs to board* I totally missed this lady but now I can see what all the fuss was about...BRB!

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  • ashleyjo09ashleyjo09 member
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    edited December 2011
      Surprised my jaw litterally dropped!
  • katanne9katanne9 member
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    WHHHHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAATTTTTTTTT!
  • PaigeMcCPaigeMcC member
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    edited December 2011

    Did he cheat on her and then she broke up with him and was crushed and then...omg my head is spinning.  Too silly!


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  • pag41989pag41989 member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm not sure if I feel more sorry for the girl or that poor poor child.Frown
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  • hetshuphetshup member
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    Can we as a society choose to sterilize people? Let me make sure I have this right, you are so in lurve that you just HAVE to be engaged. Then the man of your dreams cheats on you, leaves you for said chick, yet you still are sleeping with him. You get knocked up, are back with the cheater and are right back to being so in lurve that now you need baby and wedding advice?


    And what I REALLY don't understand? Everyone is like, yay! A baby! B\c babies make everything easier. Seriously, forced sterilization.

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  • ashleyjo09ashleyjo09 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_honors-sash-girl-back?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:fc4461cb-355b-4797-968d-e9241d64af14Post:a0dfc164-9c1c-4019-b450-8beb5ff2b1d4">Re: Honors sash girl is back...</a>:
    [QUOTE]Can we as a society choose to sterilize people? Let me make sure I have this right, you are so in lurve that you just HAVE to be engaged. Then the man of your dreams cheats on you, leaves you for said chick, yet you still are sleeping with him. You get knocked up, are back with the cheater and are right back to being so in lurve that now you need baby and wedding advice? And what I REALLY don't understand? Everyone is like, yay! A baby! B\c babies make everything easier. Seriously, forced sterilization.
    Posted by hetshup[/QUOTE]

    AGREED!
  • edited December 2011
    The only one of those women that has a good head on her shoulders seems to be bbyckes.  I'm with her, I hope the OP and her BF get their issues worked out before that baby comes, because the environment she has described over the past few months is no place to raise a child.  In fact, it seems exactly like the scenario EmilyKathleen was talking about in Norway's baby post here when she brought up the 19-year-old pregnant girl who gets pregnant when she's not financially or emotionally stable just to keep a man.  Or in this case, to get him back from the woman he cheated on you with.  ::sigh::  Poor kid.
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  • edited December 2011
    Hetsup: Didn't you know that babies magically fix everything that's wrong in a relationship? DUH!

    This may make me a horrible person, but part of me wonders if this was an accidentally-on-purpose-so-I-can-get-my-man-back baby.  I've seen it before.

    Ugh. I have no compassion for that woman. That baby, however, I feel for immensely. It probably doesn't have a chance in hell.

    You know what I really don't understand? How a woman can have so little self respect as to go running back to a man who cheated on her just because she is pregnant.  I can say firsthand that being raised by a single parent can be a much, MUCH healthier environment for a child than an unstable one with both parents in the picture.
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    Maybe when she's a mom she'll understand how wrong it was of her to bring that chick's baby into her BSC posts. Remember that?

    What was that girl's name......?

    Anyway, yeah. That was all kinds of wrong, and italy just didn't get why.
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    I saw a TV show today titled, "Pregnancy for Dummies"...

    I agree with Hetshup.

  • pag41989pag41989 member
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    edited December 2011
    I believe that was when she was talking to stackeye about her mixed child and saying that she couldn't get a white man so she had to steal a black man or something like that. I may be mistaken but that's the post I am thinking of.
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  • edited December 2011
    I'm keeping out hope that she's just a dedicated troll
    I'm not comfortable living in a world where italythomas is real
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  • edited December 2011
    Holy trainwreck, Batman...

    [QUOTE] This may make me a horrible person, but part of me wonders if this was an accidentally-on-purpose-so-I-can-get-my-man-back baby.  I've seen it before. [/QUOTE]

    No worries, sista. I was wondering the same exact thing (and seriously hoping I was wrong). I'm joining the Horrible Person Club right along with you.

    [QUOTE]Let me make sure I have this right, you are so in lurve that you just HAVE to be engaged. Then the man of your dreams cheats on you, leaves you for said chick, yet you still are sleeping with him. You get knocked up, are back with the cheater and are right back to being so in lurve that now you need baby and wedding advice?[/QUOTE]

    Seriously, a big part of me is hoping that this chick is MUDing all over the place, because if she isn't, I can't imagine the hellish situation that kid is going to get birthed into. I'm praying for his/her sake that she gets her shite together.

    Day-um...that's all I can say.

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  • edited December 2011
    Unfortunately Button, even if italy isn't real, there are thousands of people out there exactly like her.  It scares the shiit out of me, too.
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    All I really have to say is --

    What's more expensive, babies or condoms? WEAR A FRIGGIN' CONDOM. Jesus.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_honors-sash-girl-back?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:fc4461cb-355b-4797-968d-e9241d64af14Post:9defc0a2-2c7c-44b7-ac4c-9dfab967ae94">Re: Honors sash girl is back...</a>:
    [QUOTE]I believe that was when she was talking to stackeye about her mixed child and saying that she couldn't get a white man so she had to steal a black man or something like that. I may be mistaken but that's the post I am thinking of.
    Posted by pag41989[/QUOTE]
    Almost, pag. Honors sash girl was trying to denegrate stackeye, saying she couldn't get a black man, so she went for a white man so as to have a mixed-race baby. Honors sash girl is such a mental midget that she didn't realize that stackeye is white and her husband is AA.
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    Mental midget! AHAHAHAHAHAHA
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_honors-sash-girl-back?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:fc4461cb-355b-4797-968d-e9241d64af14Post:9351e68a-3377-4533-8cd0-4f651fd787e6">Re: Honors sash girl is back...</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Honors sash girl is back... : Almost, pag. Honors sash girl was trying to denegrate stackeye, saying she couldn't get a black man, so she went for a white man so as to have a mixed-race baby. Honors sash girl is such a mental midget that she didn't realize that stackeye is white and her husband is AA.
    Posted by sarabellam[/QUOTE]
    Thanks... I was close lol. yeah I forgot she said that she had to get a white man. Guess I got it backwards.. oops.
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_honors-sash-girl-back?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:fc4461cb-355b-4797-968d-e9241d64af14Post:bcea689a-48d0-4abc-99ea-712cb7d6fe89">Re: Honors sash girl is back...</a>:
    [QUOTE]Unfortunately Button, even if italy isn't real, there are thousands of people out there exactly like her.  It scares the shiit out of me, too.
    Posted by noelle24[/QUOTE]


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  • edited December 2011
    I wonder if she still lurks this board.
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  • edited December 2011
    Button, wait for me! I'm coming, too!
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    Awesome, I was scared I'd be alone there.
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    I'm down on this new planet idea.  Count me in too!

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  • edited December 2011

    WOW. Thats all I have to say.
    If I'm remembering right, isn't she the one whose 30 year old boyfriend had multiple babymommas and was a cell phone salesman?
    I have a feeling that this relationship will really last now that she's pregnant.
    What I really find disturbing is that no one on AAW seems to be concerned about the situation.

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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_honors-sash-girl-back?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:fc4461cb-355b-4797-968d-e9241d64af14Post:4f04059f-a1ac-44f7-87a1-dcf7c5f795f8">Re: Honors sash girl is back...</a>:
    [QUOTE]What I really find disturbing is that no one on AAW seems to be concerned about the situation.
    Posted by ekathleen684[/QUOTE]

    That's what struck me too.  Bbyckes was the only one who said anything slightly helpful to the girl.  Everyone else was just encouraging her poor behavior.  :-(
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_honors-sash-girl-back?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:fc4461cb-355b-4797-968d-e9241d64af14Post:3447b360-50b2-46ad-bfb7-b343c9b4c80c">Re: Honors sash girl is back...</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Honors sash girl is back... : That's what struck me too.  Bbyckes was the only one who said anything slightly helpful to the girl.  Everyone else was just encouraging her poor behavior.  :-(
    Posted by Acrosthec[/QUOTE]

    Not to mention, the entire thread shut down when bbyckes said what she did. Ooops. lol

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  • edited December 2011
    Ummm wow, that is patetic!  Where in the world do these idiots get the idea that a baby will make the things better/easier/work out etc.  Having a baby is a rollercoaster physically and emotionally for mom (even when she's stable and firing on all cylinders) and it puts your relationship with your man to the test.  Pregnancy and a new baby can make a relationship/marriage that seemed stable and happy into a nightmare (been there) so I can only imagine what it would do to a unstable relationship.

    Oh and I am totally with you guys on the thinking it was an "opps I'm pregnant" thing.  What the hell are you doing sleeping with your ex that cheated on you anyways dumbass?!  Ugh, I'm on board for selective sterilization for sure... been telling people that for years!  If you can't support a child physically, mentally and financially don't be irresponsible and have unprotected sex!   End rant.
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