My bf and I have been together almost 10 awesome months. We already know we want to get married tentatively late summer early fall of 2013. Both sets of parents are aware of this so money can be saved up and we won't be scrapping for cash or maxing out credit cards. Parents are the only ones that know about this plan.
Jordan's birthday his dad handed me the check and told me to make sure Jordan puts it in the right account and elbows me.
Here and there throughout our relationship i been asked by my mom's co-workers, family friends, my friends , etc "so when is the wedding?" I look at them funny " really , do you know something I don't know? because I don't see a ring on my finger yet and it hasn't even been a year." Every time I tell Jordan that I was asked again today he gets annoyed. He thinks i was pressuring him " do you want me to buy a ring or buy the ring you deserve"
I was asked 3 times yesterday and one time Jordan was present so he finally saw that it really isn't me, it is everyone else that is pushing for a wedding announcement.
Why cant people just wait and see. i know everyone is happy but I told Jordan 1 year minimum before he could even ask. He has known from the minute we started dating that is was my wish and he respects that. I know he is saving up for a ring but i don't know when he going to pop the question . I don't want to know because it should be a surprise .
My focus right now is graduating in December from school and passing my national boards. He is focused on a brand new job/ promotion.
How do you deal with people that are pushing your relationship and want to know when the wedding is?
Im afraid all this pushing is to much and I dont want people bugging me about wedding stuff , invites, location, food etc.