need some good advice

krazyrebel20

well im 20 and my man is 17, so a bit of an age diff, bt we r rly n love and have been dating for a really long time. we are gettin married n march, and we dont know how to really plan anything my parents didnt have a regualr n neither did his so we could use some help on how to do this and even get it started, so any advice would really help us .

Beachy730

Seriously, I can't even take you serious as someone getting married with you typing on here in text speak.  I'm really hoping this isn't real, and if it is, your boy  is too young to get married.  I'm sorry, 17 is not a man. 

DramaGeek

Are you pregnant?

Snippylynn

LesPaul

Please finish school, learn how to speak and write coherently, and wait at least 10 years to even consider getting married to anyone.  This is a disaster waiting to happen.  I hope you're not real.

brilibby4

Hmm MUD.

vixey

Since your "man" is only 17, first you need his parents to sign off on it, because I'm pretty sure minors can't get married - even in Arkansas.  But maybe I'm wrong.

Does he have any money? Do you?  I doubt it.  Is he still in high school?  Are you? (based on your grammar)

Also, what is a "regualr n"?

Lastly, text speak is generally frowned.  So please use proper grammar and spelling in your future posts.

Angrytomato

legal age of consent in AK is 16. yikes.

heyimbren

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_need-good-advice-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:063b099a-340c-4d58-8cf2-f75d14f34ba4Post:f0ccb602-ae1e-43c4-a7f2-d06b2878a4be">need some good advice</a>:
[QUOTE]well im 20 and my man is 17, so a bit of an age diff, bt we r rly n love and have been dating for a really long time. we are gettin married n march, and we dont know how to really plan anything my parents didnt have a regualr n neither did his so we could use some help on how to do this and even get it started, so any advice would really help us .
Posted by krazyrebel20[/QUOTE]

Starting point: you wait about 5 years minimum.

Mrs.B6302007

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_need-good-advice-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:063b099a-340c-4d58-8cf2-f75d14f34ba4Post:1c00e75f-351b-4837-b0fc-f918aeaa5b69">Re: need some good advice</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to need some good advice : Starting point: you wait about 5 years minimum.
Posted by heyimbren[/QUOTE]

I'll see your 5 years and raise you 5.

vixey

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_need-good-advice-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:063b099a-340c-4d58-8cf2-f75d14f34ba4Post:b276d200-a6ef-4e98-8ce4-7fdaf23349e8">Re: need some good advice</a>:
[QUOTE]legal age of consent in AK is 16. yikes.
Posted by Angrytomato[/QUOTE]
Holy cow!  Well good news for OP, she and her man can run off on their own without parental consent!

mandi921vh

Anyone who cannot type properly should not be getting married.

tidetravel

You, crazy rebel, you...

ichellemay1

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_need-good-advice-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:063b099a-340c-4d58-8cf2-f75d14f34ba4Post:656792f6-51ed-4558-9cc3-8291165a899b">Re: need some good advice</a>:
[QUOTE]Hmm MUD.
Posted by brilibby4[/QUOTE]

Ditto.

SarahPLiz

If his parents aren't regular, I suggest Milk of Magnesia. I don't understand the rest. Please finish school. 

saisongbird

MUD, Troll, all sorts of lies here.

vixey

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_need-good-advice-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:063b099a-340c-4d58-8cf2-f75d14f34ba4Post:c9aec05a-e4e0-4c8d-bf8f-8bf90c462fb9">Re: need some good advice</a>:
[QUOTE]If his parents aren't regular, I suggest Milk of Magnesia. I don't understand the rest. Please finish school. 
Posted by SarahPLiz[/QUOTE]
this is my favorite.

heyimbren

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_need-good-advice-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:063b099a-340c-4d58-8cf2-f75d14f34ba4Post:a2a3106b-3e78-4345-8251-57eb692860ef">Re: need some good advice</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: need some good advice : I'll see your 5 years and raise you 5.
Posted by Mrs.B6302007[/QUOTE]

5, 10, however long it takes to finish that HS diploma!

trix1223

"my man is 17"

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

::Stops to wipe eyes and catch breath::

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

HobokensFury

I really hope this is a joke.  If it's not try learning to speak and write English before you get married.

emersic9

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_need-good-advice-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:063b099a-340c-4d58-8cf2-f75d14f34ba4Post:c9aec05a-e4e0-4c8d-bf8f-8bf90c462fb9">Re: need some good advice</a>:
[QUOTE]If his parents aren't regular, I suggest Milk of Magnesia. I don't understand the rest. Please finish school. 
Posted by SarahPLiz[/QUOTE]

<div>love this.</div>

Amisslis

I refuse to believe that you are real until it is proven otherwise. Sorry.

jenn.daniel

I think you're actually 12.  I don't buy 20.  If you really are 20, this has to be MUD.

ichellemay1

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_need-good-advice-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:063b099a-340c-4d58-8cf2-f75d14f34ba4Post:cda43802-1c1b-410d-a1d7-665d8d2619de">Re: need some good advice</a>:
[QUOTE]"my man is 17" hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha ::Stops to wipe eyes and catch breath:: hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Posted by trix1223[/QUOTE]

::Passes tissue to trix::

Soon2BMrsClay

yeah I can't take this seriously.

M.U.D.

squirrly

I want to know why really was spelled out once and abused by text speak into "rly" once. 

Consistency makes one more believable, just FYI. 

JanoBean75

why bother with commas?

ashley1721

if you are serious, obviously anything anyone says on here wont matter to you, I do completely agree with every single pp. You need to look into premarital counseling, hopefully someone who deals with relationships everyday like that will be able to give you some insight into having a real adult relationshsip. The way you post is very hard to believe that your in anyway ready to be getting married, let alone both of your ages, and if you both are "really in love" as you said, than you will still be in love with eachother in 5-10 years, once your both finished with school, and actually have somesort of idea about future not just together but for yourself. I would hope you want this to be a life decision, and something you will take seriously.

J&K10910

BUT GUYZ THEY'RE IN LOOOOOOVEEEEE!!!!  AGE IS JUST A NUMBER OR SOMETHINGGGGGGG!!!!!