cold feet?

cdwalsh

Just waiting for work to be over on this rainy friday, so here's a thought...My MOH were out shopping last night for a bachorlette party outfit.  By nature i am a homebody, very 'family oriented', practical person.  I am not a party girl in any sense of the word.So when I tried on this short little sexy dress (kinda slutty) just for fun, and then said out loud, "I can't wear this.  Married women don't dress like this", it hit me that i am getting married, and i'll never be able to dress like that again.  But the weird part is, is that I would never wear that anyways, even if i were single!  Maybe it's just that I really don't even have that choice anymore...The wedding is only 16 days away now, so I think i'm just getting nervous....Anyone else have a weird moment like this?

cdwalsh

I think i am done.  I really only have to make my seating chart, which i will be doing tonight.And then its just the minor things.  Pick up my dresses on Thrusday, go to the dentist for a cleanining, haircut/hairtrial/waxing, and bach party next weekend!  Then of course finalize numbers with vendors and pay out all the $$$$ we owe!And my FMIL and FSIL are coming on aug 4 to stay for a week for the wedding.how is your planning going?  trust me...the next 11 months will go by quicker than you think.  we got engaged august 8, 08 and are getting married aug 9, 09.  can't beleive that was almost a year ago!

notquiteblushing

And my FMIL and FSIL are coming on aug 4 to stay for a week for the wedding.Oh yikes!Sounds like you're ready.Our planning is at a lull for a while.  We booked all the big stuff and now we're just saving money.  I made the wedding website last night and will be picking out STDs pretty soon.  FI has to make the room block and I can't think of what else we need to do soon.  Nothing that requires a deposit, that's for sure.  :-)

cashandrich

I have always worn what I wanted and don't see why getting married would change that.

PhileahForever

Yeah just because you're married doesn't mean you should have to change your wardrobe AT ALL.. you're you, why should going from engaged to married change that? It shouldn't! )

notquiteblushing

Oh STFU that's not what she (or I) was saying. She was going to dress like a hoochie as a gag for her bachellorette.  And I'm turning 30 and want more mature clothes and can't afford them until after the wedding. 

PhileahForever

Woah, was what I said mean or something? It wasn't supposed to sound mean!

notquiteblushing

It seemed to me everyone was saying "OMG you're changing yourself for marriage?" and that wasn't the point of OPs post at all.  She's just freaking out a bit and could use some fellowship.

MissIntentional

cd-where did you get your candy scoops? i have 5 so far but i will be needing more & i can't find them anywhere in person.

l_disciple

Ah but married women DO wear things like that - on special nights in with the hubby! *wink wink nudge nudge*

cravecase

Why can't you wear something like that when you are married?  Don't you think your husband would enjoy it?  I don't see a reason to change a wardrobe.