Today I went to lunch with FI's parents and grandparents. Somehow the topic of registries came up, and FI's grandma brought up one of my FI's cousins that recently got married. They not only included their registry information IN the wedding invitation, but at the bottom of it put "Don't be cheap!" Even worse, they registerd for stuff like a plasma tv and an Xbox! Most of the family were all set to buy them wedding gifts, but after that, they decided to not even bother sending a card - much less show up to the wedding. How tacky (not to mention RUDE) can you get?!