Well we are a little over 5 months left until our wedding. It is a second marriage for both of us. Feels like my first cause its been 14 years! My mom insisted on helping which we did not ask for. But we we so happy that she offered and love her for that. But the problem is , almost every week she says somthing like shes doing all the decorating and not my maid of honor cause she paid for it all. Well i said that was fine , now i just booked my hotel at the crown plaza for me and all my bridesmaids for a night of fun before the wedding day. I have a joining room for my mom and mother in law and my mom got very angry that she wont be in my room. She cussed me out and hung up the phone on me. Then called back and left a message saying shes done don't call her. This has happened before so nothing new. I feel grateful for what she is doing which is decoration, flowers, and half my gown which is gorgeous by the way. But now i feel like i can't please her. Any sugestions on what i can do. I even told her not to do so much, that just being there was enough. It makes it so hard to be happy wedding planning when shes mad. Last week it was because i got a spray tan for one of my bridesmaids and not her and she called me selfish. When the gift i have for her is way better, and she does not even know. I just think she's to controlling! Please help!