hello ladies!
so here is the problem....
my fiance's parents are very graciously throwing us a wedding...
they have said that it is what Fiance and i want...and they are happy with what ever our decision is.
Fiance and i chose a small location because we wanted an intimate wedding...
of course that immediately got out of hand! hahah! between his parents' guests and my parent's guest it is no longer a small wedding...
also, the vison has quickly become what fiance's mom wants...lucky for me, she has great taste

the problem is with the guests of my parents.
we didnt want kids at the wedding....we aren't even having fiance's little cousins cos his mom didnt want kids at the wedding.
one of their friends rsvpd for them and their 2 kids (even though the invitation was for just the couple)! also, another one of their friends who isnt seeing anyone at all was invited alone (she will know pleanty of people at the wedding, including other single friends of hers...). but she rsvpd with a plus 1.
what does one do in this situation? do we just let it be?
thank you in advance