I am going to give you guys a bit of a background to my sister and I. We're both in our twenties and found a great guy around the same time (I'm the younger one, she's the older). My FI proposed first, we talked about it about 1.5 years in after living together for a bit (summers between college) and finding we work well together. So then my sister got engaged 6 months after my FI and I. She's my MOH, I'm her MOH. FI and I got engaged last August, picked fall 2012 to get married; sister got a little upset because she also wanted to get married in the fall.
So here's the situation: she decided her and her FI would wait til 2013 to get married because they wanted everything their way so they decided to pay for it and so it wouldn't conflict with mine. A month ago, however, she decided she wanted to do Justice of Peace, and mom and I were like "okay, is that what you really want?" and she says yes. So we marked our calendar and originally it was just me, her, both FI, parents, and siblings. A week before, she decides to invite friends and make it a dinner party afterward, hire a photographer (same photographer as me), do a cocktail hour, etc. basically everything but the white dress.
So I went to her JOP and didn't get to sign the marriage license, wasn't thanked for coming, and was basically ignored the entire time. I asked my FI and he agrees.... did she get married like this to beat me to the punch? Just for reference, she hasn't EVER done anything like this, but I wasn't treated right as MOH... I didn't even know where or when we were doing anything. I had to find out the day of.
And, just so you know, she still plans on having the fall 2013 "wedding." Am I crazy?