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having an overwhelmed day. anyone else?

Deep breaths! 

Things are starting to come together.  Still over a year to go but today just seems to be one of those days where my brain just wont stop.

I know I'm not alone!

Re: having an overwhelmed day. anyone else?

  • ceh789ceh789 member
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    edited April 2012
    You're overwhelmed with wedding planning 14 months out?  Hon... you need to relax if you want to survive the next year.  Seriously - you'll drive yourself crazy.
  • I'm not on the floor sobbing.  Its just a stage when not a whole lot is nailed down and theres a lot more ahead than behind and the fininacials look completely impossible.
  • I had a moment at 18 months because I thought DIYing invitations  needed to be started right away.lol... at day 99, now it is time to start freaking out. Yeah, I didn't have a reasonable timeline.

    Like EdieLaura, gotta start thinking about the big number items. Budget, venue, photographer and a guest list mock up. 

  • em01092em01092 member
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    edited April 2012
    Are you having disagreements with family or your FI about WR things? That's all that I can say was really affecting me at a year out. FMIL had a very different vision of what her son's wedding would be like that he/we did. 
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  • Just breathe, 

    At the end of this whole wedding process, the only thing that REALLY matters is that you will be married to your FI - things can go not as planned as far as the ceremony and reception goes, but you becoming a wife will be much more important to you!!


  • edited April 2012
    this will not be the first time you stress and wont be the last. im 21 days away and I cant seem to be stress free. but i am the worry wort type so. It will be fine, just dont jump the gun get your finaces in straights first. can't go booking large or high priced vendors if it is not within your budget. I would suggest looking around first and finding out cost and then see it that can be in your range.
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  • Yep I am a year out and everything is fine...except my FMIL ----THATS where problems are!
  • edited April 2012
    haha ive had those days too ! just like days where something hit us financially and i had a meltdown wanting to cancel the wedding cause i didnt think we could afford it and stuff

    being a girl is dandy isnt it ? lol
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