My fiance and I got in a huge fight this weekend

daisymom0317

I'm very worried about this most recent fight we had this weekend. I've made some previous posts lately about me getting into a marriage with an instant teenage son and my concern over alone time considering I have no kids. The recommendation from everyone is counseling, which I'm going to seek out. In the meantime, I sometimes feel like my relationship with my fiance is suffering. Here's what happened this weekend. And I know that my temper played a big part and my reactions were childish. I apologize for the long post. The three of us went out to the mall then out to eat Fri night. I bought dinner for all of us Fri night and asked my fiance could he get his and his son's lunch on Sat that I would be paying for my mom's. He said yes. I didn't mention anything about who would be paying for dinner on Sat night. Then Sat morning, the three of us and my mom left around 9am to go see my grandma and flower girl dress shop. My fiance and his son did their own thing while my cousin and I shopped. Well the four of us stopped for dinner Sat night on our way home. My mom paid for hers and my fiance paid for his and his son's. He didn't offer to pay for mine. I was hurt. Then my mom made a comment about how he didn't pay for my meal. I was really embarrassed. So I let this affect the rest of my night and I didn't speak for the rest of the way home. I dropped my mom off then took my fiance and his son to their place. Because we hadn't been able to talk privately all day or even kiss, I figured he would spend about 5 minutes or so with me in the car and tell his son he would be inside in a few minutes. Well, he didn't. He started to get out at the same time his son did, but he leaned over to "pop kiss" me. Because he didn't exert any effort to spend a few minutes alone with me, I turned my cheek. I know this was childish. Well he got pissed and slammed the door. I left and went home and texted him saying how I didn't appreciate how he acted that night. Well he said I acted the same way then he said goodnight. I texted him more but he didn't respond so I called him, but he had turned off his cell phone. I then called his home phone, but he didn't pick up. Sun morning, he responded to all my texts. I was still so hurt and angry from the night before that I told him to leave me alone that I didn't want to talk to him. Then I called him a bad name which was wrong for me to do. So I didn't hear from him all day. He went hiking with his son and son's boy scout troop, but I assumed he would let me know when he got back and that he would want to see me. Well he didn't. I texted him around 8 something last night and he finally responded an hour later. He said he didn't contact me because I had told him I didn't want to talk to him. So I admit I texted some mean things and I threatened to call off the wedding. Well he called me and was really mad and yelled at me. We talked it through, told each other I love you then hung up. This morning, he and his son had to drive 4 hours because his son had an orthodontic appointment. He texted me and told me he had left. I called him on my way to work but he wasn't in a good mood. That was the last time I've heard from him. Since I hadn't heard from him, I texted him around 2:30 this afternoon and asked if they were on their way back. He responded almost an hour later and said they had just left. So I asked if he was seeing his dad while he was there. He hasn't responded. I understand the no texting while you drive, but it looks like he could call me and talk to me. And this probably means I won't see him again tonight since he was just leaving a little while ago.
Is our relationship doomed? Is this normal to be happening? I'm so worried. Is everything my fault? Should we go ahead and seek counseling before the premarital counseling that starts next month? Or should we call off the wedding?
I'm so confused on what to do. My apologies for such a long post.

zitiqueen

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[QUOTE]I'm very worried about this most recent fight we had this weekend. I've made some previous posts lately about me getting into a marriage with an instant teenage son and my concern over alone time considering I have no kids. The recommendation from everyone is counseling, which I'm going to seek out. In the meantime, I sometimes feel like my relationship with my fiance is suffering. Here's what happened this weekend. And I know that my temper played a big part and my reactions were childish. I apologize for the long post. The three of us went out to the mall then out to eat Fri night. I bought dinner for all of us Fri night and asked my fiance could he get his and his son's lunch on Sat that I would be paying for my mom's. He said yes. I didn't mention anything about who would be paying for dinner on Sat night. Then Sat morning, the three of us and my mom left around 9am to go see my grandma and flower girl dress shop. My fiance and his son did their own thing while my cousin and I shopped. Well the four of us stopped for dinner Sat night on our way home. My mom paid for hers and my fiance paid for his and his son's. He didn't offer to pay for mine. I was hurt. Then my mom made a comment about how he didn't pay for my meal. I was really embarrassed. So I let this affect the rest of my night and I didn't speak for the rest of the way home. I dropped my mom off then took my fiance and his son to their place. Because we hadn't been able to talk privately all day or even kiss, I figured he would spend about 5 minutes or so with me in the car and tell his son he would be inside in a few minutes. Well, he didn't. He started to get out at the same time his son did, but he leaned over to "pop kiss" me. Because he didn't exert any effort to spend a few minutes alone with me, I turned my cheek. I know this was childish. Well he got pissed and slammed the door. I left and went home and texted him saying how I didn't appreciate how he acted that night. Well he said I acted the same way then he said goodnight. I texted him more but he didn't respond so I called him, but he had turned off his cell phone. I then called his home phone, but he didn't pick up. Sun morning, he responded to all my texts. I was still so hurt and angry from the night before that I told him to leave me alone that I didn't want to talk to him. Then I called him a bad name which was wrong for me to do. So I didn't hear from him all day. He went hiking with his son and son's boy scout troop, but I assumed he would let me know when he got back and that he would want to see me. Well he didn't. I texted him around 8 something last night and he finally responded an hour later. He said he didn't contact me because I had told him I didn't want to talk to him. So I admit I texted some mean things and I threatened to call off the wedding. Well he called me and was really mad and yelled at me. We talked it through, told each other I love you then hung up. This morning, he and his son had to drive 4 hours because his son had an orthodontic appointment. He texted me and told me he had left. I called him on my way to work but he wasn't in a good mood. That was the last time I've heard from him. Since I hadn't heard from him, I texted him around 2:30 this afternoon and asked if they were on their way back. He responded almost an hour later and said they had just left. So I asked if he was seeing his dad while he was there. He hasn't responded. I understand the no texting while you drive, but it looks like he could call me and talk to me. And this probably means I won't see him again tonight since he was just leaving a little while ago. Is our relationship doomed? Is this normal to be happening? I'm so worried. Is everything my fault? Should we go ahead and seek counseling before the premarital counseling that starts next month? Or should we call off the wedding? I'm so confused on what to do. My apologies for such a long post.
Posted by daisymom0317[/QUOTE]

I personally think you should at least postpone the wedding. You really need to think about what you want from this marriage. His child is always going to be there and is always going to come first, which is how it should be. You have to accept that if you're going to marry somebody who already has a child.

You also need to learn how to communicate like grownups. Grownups speak to each other using their grownup voices. They don't text and they don't expect the other one to be able to read their minds.

redheadfsu

You need to breathe & stop texting.

By freaking out over your relationship (worrying whether it is doomed) you are hurting your relationship.

Either trust in your relationship or get out of it. But by freaking out over the not paying & not texting right now, you making it ten times worse. Just calm down and talk to him when you have free time later.

NO2012

I have seen your previous posts, but did not have the opportunity to respond.  My FI has 2 young children (ages 5 and 8 currently) and we started dating fresh off of his divorce a couple of years ago.  I did not meet his children until a year into the relationship as we both agreed they were not ready for that next step and were still adjusting to divorce.  It was the hardest year of my life (so I thought, haha) and the only thing that kept me sane and focused on what the priorties were (the children's well being) was counseling.  It has been a year since I met his children and it is a constant adjustment process.  Counseling continues!  I have a truly wonderful relationship with both of his children, they adore me, I adore them, they are excited about the wedding, etc.  But that does not change the reality of the situation that things are changing for everyone and those changes must be dealt with directly, by the adults.  Don't ever forget that you are the adult in the situation and you are dealing with a child.  I should add, that like you, I am getting married a little later in life and I have no children of my own. 

I do sense in your posts a great deal of resentment towards your FI and his son, which needs to be dealt with before you are married (I am not judging or criticizing at all- please know that).  You two must be a team.  Your relationship and marriage comes first, then the children.  If there is a divide between you, you will have serious troubles.  This is not to say that you need to call off the wedding today, or even postpone it, but it does mean you need to take action to address this problem today.  Take the initiative to make a counseling appointment for yourself, regardless of whether your FI agrees to go.  Ultimately this about you and how you are handling the situation.  Your FI most definitely has a role in this, but you can't control him or what he does, only what you do.  It would be nice for you two to have counseling together, but don't wait around on him.  Tell him you have made an appt for yourself because you feel you are not handling the situtation well and need to work on it.  If he offers to go, great.  If not, use the opportunity to address the issues by yourself at first and I promise you the counselor will soon suggest that he come in with you or you find another counselor for the both of you.  Good luck and take a deep breath.  Blending families is super hard and those who do it successfully are to be admired IMO.  Read what you can on the internet and in books to get some perspective and know you are not alone. 

ChristineNB

I think the advice from previous threads of yours still holds true.  I think you and your fiancee need to talk privately about how much of a big adjustment all of this is for you, and about the possibility of conseling.  Perhaps your fiancee doesn't realize that you are not used to being a parent and all and that being the mom of  a 14 year old is a big adjustment.  Please don't rush into this marriage without having worked through some of this with your soon to be husband

NO2012

P.S.  If you have not read the book by Izzy Rose, "The Package Deal: My (not-so) Glamorous Transition from Single Gal to Instant Mom," go out and get it today.  I read this book very early in our relationship and it helped me come to grips with what I was REALLY getting myself into it. 

lalaweddingdiva

I don't know but the whole not texting/ignoring you for a couple days seems odd for people who are getting married. If my FI doesn't talk to me at regular times, he gets worried or calls to check in. Also, if I don't kiss him he won't leave car until I kiss him back. He also pays for my food and odd he let your mom pay, unless he assumed u were gonna pay for u and ur mom as y'all previously agreed about the lunch you skipped. There has to be more to this because it all seems like really stupid stuff to not talk to each other over, jmo.

egeurts

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[QUOTE]I'm very worried about this most recent fight we had this weekend... <strong>I know that my temper played a big part and my reactions were childish...</strong>. <strong>He didn't offer to pay for mine. I was hurt</strong>. Then my mom made a comment about how he didn't pay for my meal. <strong>I was really embarrassed. So I let this affect the rest of my night and I didn't speak for the rest of the way home.</strong> ....<strong>Because he didn't exert any effort to spend a few minutes alone with me, I turned my cheek. I know this was childish. Well he got pissed and slammed the door. </strong>I left and went home and texted him saying how I didn't appreciate how he acted that night. Well he said I acted the same way then he said goodnight. I texted him more but he didn't respond so I called him, but <strong>he had turned off his cell phone. </strong>I then called his home phone, but he didn't pick up. Sun morning, he responded to all my texts. I was still so hurt and angry from the night before that I told him to leave me alone that <strong>I didn't want to talk to him. Then I called him a bad name which was wrong for me to do</strong>. .... <strong>He said he didn't contact me because I had told him I didn't want to talk to him. So I admit I texted some mean things and I threatened to call off the wedding. Well he called me and was really mad and yelled at me. We talked it through, told each other I love you then hung up.....</strong> <strong>Is this normal to be happening?</strong> I'm so worried. I<strong>s everything my fault?</strong> Should we go ahead and seek counseling before the premarital counseling that starts next month? Or should we call off the wedding? I'm so confused on what to do. My apologies for such a long post.
Posted by daisymom0317[/QUOTE]

<div>Yes, temper was bad and your reactionsn were childish. So were his. </div><div>You shouldn't have been hurt by him not offering to pay for your meal- you said you were going to get yours and your mom's. This should not have surprised you.</div><div>You're an adult. Don't use the silent treatment. </div><div>Turning your cheek is childish, you're right. Slamming the door in your face and turning off his phone is also childish. Right now the only adult in the relationship is the 14 year old.</div><div>At this point, you should have called it a bad night rather than carry it over into the next day. Both of you continuing a combination of yelling and silent treatment all of the next day is not a good reflection of how things are going. Especially when all this communication is via text. Typing "I love you" at the end of it doesn't magically make it better, although it does help.</div><div>Is it normal? No, but it's understandable for people in your shoes to be stressed out, tense, preoccupied, and worried. You need to find a way to deal with it better. Is everything your fault? You certainly may have made a tense situation much much worse with childish reactions and a bad temper, but he had equally bad responses. I agree that what you need is to seek help. </div><div>I'm not advocating for a postponement of the marriage, but you need to do something, or else this is not going to move in a healthy direction. </div><div>
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ceh789

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[QUOTE]Should we go ahead and seek counseling before the premarital counseling that starts next month?
Posted by daisymom0317[/QUOTE]
Yup.  Not sure what you're waiting for.  Repeatedly ranting to strangers on the internet isn't helping.

daisymom0317

I agree this isn't moving in a healthy direction. That's why I'm so upset. I just now heard from him which is almost 5 hours later. And to top it off, he didn't call, he texted. This is right after last night he told me he wanted our conversations to be over the phone or face to face. I'm so frustrated. His excuse for not calling when I sent my earlier texts was due to the route he was taking, both hands had to be on the wheel. And I agree our actions don't appear as we're an engaged couple. That's why I'm so sad right now. But I'm calling my therapist tomorrow morning to make an appointment. I just can't take it anymore. I'll be going with or without him.

sonya+adam

In my opinion, it just seems like a petty fight that you will both get over. I don't think the fact that he's barely texted you today is any sort of indication. If he was busy with his son today, it's not likely that he's going to be constantly texting you like a teenager. I defeinitely don't think that this little fight is worth calling off the wedding. Little fights happen, and that's okay.

I still think that you should talk to him about your issues with alone time, but this is something completely different.

ceh789

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: My fiance and I got in a huge fight this weekend : The bolded parts above...both good ideas.  I hope the two of you are able to sort things out and find a way to succeed as a couple. Helpful hint...paragraphs are always appreciated.  Walls o' text are hard to read.
Posted by LucyHC[/QUOTE]
What she said.  Texting is for 13 year old gossips, not adult disagreements.  I'm glad you're seeking out someone to talk to about this who can advise and coach you properly.

bluesmiley78

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[QUOTE]I don't know but the whole not texting/ignoring you for a couple days seems odd for people who are getting married. If my FI doesn't talk to me at regular times, he gets worried or calls to check in. Also, if I don't kiss him he won't leave car until I kiss him back. He also pays for my food and odd he let your mom pay, unless he assumed u were gonna pay for u and ur mom as y'all previously agreed about the lunch you skipped. There has to be more to this because it all seems like really stupid stuff to not talk to each other over, jmo.
Posted by lalaweddingdiva[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>This...my FI and I both came as a "package deal" him with a daughter, me with a niece and a mother...both of us have made HUGE adjustments...but we never ever go longer then a couple of hours without talking. If Im pissed off he knows and wont let me get away without talking. I just dont know how you can consider marrying someone you cant even talk to or be honest and open with. Its hard to adjust to the things that come with the other person, but thats what you do when you love someone. </div>

lumilumi

I think you may have answered your own questions.....You mentioned "I'm very worried about this most recent fight we had" and " I sometimes feel like my relationship with my fiance is suffering". 

I don't have suggestions on what you should do....but I know marriage is a big step forward as a couple and it should be a happy journey together...

daisymom0317

I made the first step this morning. I have an appointment this afternoon with my therapist. I'll be going alone so I can fill her in on what's going on then get her recommendation on when my fiance should join. I do admit I'm having a hard time with the child thing. This is something I've got to work out or I know this will not be successful. And, I agree with the assuming part. Now that someone has pointed that out, it really is a bright light. I just hope this can be salvaged. Thanks everyone. I'll keep you posted on what happens.

BunnyChii

Honestly, after reading this, I don't really think the kid is a problem. I mean, obviously you feel like he puts a damper on your relationship with your FI, but even when you talk one-on-one with him it sounds like you have horrible communication problems. Why did you never tell him, "I'm upset that you didn't pay for my dinner?" Why did he feel the need to slam the car door when you acted childish? You both really need to work on the communication problems.

I would postpone the wedding and get into some counseling stat. See, when you're upset with someone you tell them WHY, not make the argument last for several days. There's no need to call people names to say, "don't talk to me," and to make excuses not to just talk about your issues. Both of you need to figure this out in order to be in a healthy relationship, kid or no kid.

All the best.

brookerich

I think the therapy is a good idea. Maybe it will help you sort things out.  In my opinion (and take it as that, just my opinion) it seems like you and your FI want different things.  It sounds like your FI wants everyone to be a "family" since he always includes his son (I've read your previous posts) and it almost sounds like you don't want that. 

Yes, I understand that one on one time is important but have you talked to him about this.  I mean really talked to him?  I don't know all the background but is it hard for your FI to find someone to stay with his son (not that at 14 he couldn't stay by himself for a while but certainly not overnight).  Have you asked his reasons why he always includes his son and never really seems to have time for "just you" and on the same time have you expressed your excitement over doing things "as a family"?

It sounds like this latest fight was all in all really childish. I mean texting, not texing, the silent treatment.  Turning your face when he tried to kiss you.  Try and take a step back and see how childish it all looks.

Another tip, it might not be a good idea to just put your business out all over the internet.  Relationships are tricky things and sometimes its better if you don't do things like this.  When FI and I get married it is written into our vows that whatever disagreements we have will stay between us.  (our vows are Irish traditional so they're different than what you usually hear)

Honestly though it sounds like you hold a great deal of resentment against your FI's son.  Which is sad.  No matter who your FI marries (you or anyone else) his son should still be first in his life, and if you marry him you should realize that then his son becomes #1 in your life too.  My FI has 3 children, two teenagers and a son in his 20's (who has a daugher, so technically my FI is a grandfather) I've always told him from the beginning that if I ever even suspected that I would come between his children in any way that I'd be gone.  I don't have children of my own but I realize that by marrying him, his children will also be my children.  I could never hold any resentment toward him for that.

Maggie0829

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[QUOTE]I've read your previous posts but didn't respond because I don't have children and I didn't marry a man who did.  However, I do have some experience with the whole step family issue.  First, I agree with everyone else about the counseling and postponing the wedding. One thing that jumped out of your posts to me was the word "assume"  you've done an awful lot of assuming things would happen and then being upset when they didn't.  Maybe you should stop assuming things and start talking about them. For example, you didn't discuss who would pay for dinner (by your own admission) but then assumed he would pay and when he didn't you gave him the silent treatment.  You assumed he would tell his son to go inside so he could spend some time with you and when he didn't you gave him the cold shoulder. Honestly you sound very difficult to be with.  He's not a mind reader.  If you want something you need to ask for it.  He has a son who is (and should be) more important to him than you.  You're not going to change the amount of alone time you have with him.  If you can't handle that, you need to cancel the wedding and let him find someone who can. It sounds to me like you don't want to be with someone who has a child.  You want a partner who will focus on you.  There's nothing wrong with that, but this is not that guy and you need to be honest with yourself about your needs and whether or not they're being fulfilled.  This is a guy who has a child, and who quite honestly, sounds like a pretty good father to that child.  You know there are wonderful men out there that aren't tied down with children, right?
Posted by LingerLonger1[/QUOTE]

I agree with all of this.

I have read some of your previous posts and I honestly don't think you should be marrying a man with a child.  It seems like you want to be the one and only in a man's life and when that man has a child you being number one will never happen.

Counseling is a great idea and may help you realize that even though you love each other you probably aren't the best match because you want different things.

People don't change...you either learn to live with the way they are or you move on.

zitiqueen

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[QUOTE]I made the first step this morning. I have an appointment this afternoon with my therapist. I'll be going alone so I can fill her in on what's going on then get her recommendation on when my fiance should join.<strong> I do admit I'm having a hard time with the child thing. This is something I've got to work out or I know this will not be successful.</strong> And, I agree with the assuming part. Now that someone has pointed that out, it really is a bright light. I just hope this can be salvaged. Thanks everyone. I'll keep you posted on what happens.
Posted by daisymom0317[/QUOTE]

Why do you <em>have</em> to work it out? Why are you insisting on forcing a square peg into a round hole? The sooner you admit to yourself that you don't want to marry somebody who has a kid the better off everybody will be. Trust me, that poor boy knows you resent the hell out of his existence. A wedding ring isn't going to change that.

NcsuPsych

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: My fiance and I got in a huge fight this weekend : Why do you have to work it out? Why are you insisting on forcing a square peg into a round hole? The sooner you admit to yourself that you don't want to marry somebody who has a kid the better off everybody will be. Trust me, that poor boy knows you resent the hell out of his existence. A wedding ring isn't going to change that.
Posted by zitiqueen[/QUOTE]

I completely agree with this as well as with LingerLonger.
OP, I've read your past post and suggested counseling everytime. However, you seem to have some <em>serious</em> issues with this kid. This could honest to God should come first in your FI's life, not you. If you can't handle that, you have no business being with this man. He needs someone that's going to love him AND his kid, not just him.  I totally understand wanting 'alone time', but I think it's more than that. There is a lot of childish petty issues that have been posted. None of those, IMO, are from your FI.

Take a step back and re-evaluate yourself and what you really want, because if you dont want a kid, you don't need to get married to this man.

daisymom0317

A lot for me to think about. Thanks for all your opinions and suggestions.

zitiqueen

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[QUOTE]A lot for me to think about. Thanks for all your opinions and suggestions.
Posted by daisymom0317[/QUOTE]