Ok so heres the problem my fiance and I have decided that we do not want kids at our reception, we have a 3 year old son together and he will be at the reception until one of our parents take him when they leave. We dont want kids there because were going to have beer, and alot of our friends dont watch their kids and we dont want it to be a daycare. When I mentioned it to some of my friends they got a little mad and then threw in my face that my son was going to be there why cant there kids? What do I do, am I wrong?