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Catholic ceremony readers

We are having our ceremony in a Catholic church.  My family is Catholic, FI is non-denominational Christian.
We need two people to read during the ceremony.  We have already asked FI's aunt.
I ideally wanted one reader from his family and one from mine.  But I don't have a lot of family in the area.  The ones who would be comfortable doing it are already in the wedding party.  The rest wouldn't be comfortable doing it/aren't religious at all.

So, we wanted to ask FI's grandmother to do it.  She's super religious and she raised my FI so it would be nice to include her in the ceremony.

My question is, is it 'ok' to have a grandmother do a reading?  I've never seen a parent or grandparent have a role in the ceremony.   I know it's my wedding/my decision but does anyone think it's strange?   
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    We're having ffil do a reading. We had trouble finding someone who'd be comfortable speaking in public and he's comfortable with public speaking.
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    We had both my father and my husband's mom do a reading at our ceremony. Have whoever you'd like and who would be comfortable reading!
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    It's fine to have a grandmother do a reading!
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_ceremony-ideas_catholic-ceremony-readers?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:10Discussion:ffd45526-b7ad-4548-b4eb-8441bc340a78Post:1825645a-8ebc-4f9f-aaa7-8615025c6cc3">Catholic ceremony readers</a>:
    [QUOTE]We are having our ceremony in a Catholic church.  My family is Catholic, FI is non-denominational Christian. We need two people to read during the ceremony.  We have already asked FI's aunt. I ideally wanted one reader from his family and one from mine.  But I don't have a lot of family in the area.  The ones who would be comfortable doing it are already in the wedding party.  The rest wouldn't be comfortable doing it/aren't religious at all. So, we wanted to ask FI's grandmother to do it.  She's super religious and she raised my FI so it would be nice to include her in the ceremony. My question is, is it 'ok' to have a grandmother do a reading?  I've never seen a parent or grandparent have a role in the ceremony.   I know it's my wedding/my decision but does anyone think it's strange?   
    Posted by aro1589[/QUOTE]

    <div>My aunt did my reading as well as our best man and mys sister, who was my MOH, did our prayer... so I don't think having a grandmother do a reading is trange. However, make sure your check with your Priest - most Catholic churches require that the readers are baptized, practicing Catholics.</div>
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