I hope this isn't too confusing
So FI and I have a mutual friend (the friend we met through actually!) Who is getting married in a couple of months. They had mentioned to us previously (several months ago) that we would be invited to their wedding, but we hadn't heard anything in a long time and kinda figured we had been cut out of the guest list since we hadn't talked for a few months. We weren't offended or anything, they mentioned inviting us when they were first engaged and excited. We know that in planning a wedding sometimes you can't have EVERYONE there and all, so no big deal. Well on Xbox the other day FI and friend were playing a game together and again mentioned that we ARE invited to their wedding, they just were slackers and hadn't sent invites out yet and told us the date so we could take off work.
So I befriended his gf on facebook to get more information from her....and I see they did send out invites....long ago enough to get rsvps back. Long ago enough to where we would have gotten ours, and they never even asked us for our address.
Thing is, I'm not sure what to do now. It seems to me like we're B-listed, which really doesn't offend me either. The lying to us about not sending out invites has me taken aback, as we would have understood!
Do I ask if we're really invited? Do I give them our address so they can send us an invitation? Should I wait until they tell us on their own? Are they only doing this because we're inviting them to our wedding? It's only 2 months away! I've already requested off work! We do want to go, but as of now all we have is the date! Is it rude to ask for more details or to "rsvp"?