My MOH is wearing me out with her whining

Staceyacrawford

She hates the dress
Hates the shoes
Hates my dress
Hates that shes single....

Im getting a little tired of this...

AJuliaNJ

I have a feeling that "she hates that she's single" is probably the root cause of the other "hates."

What type of person is she usually? Is the negativity out of character or is she kind of a sad sack normally? Does she respond well when someone is direct with her or will she get emotional?

lyndausvi

I agree her being single might be the route of the problem.    I'm surprised that you know she hates your dress.   That's pretty mean to tell a bride.    

   Did she have any choice in her dress or shoes?   I pretty much hate any shoe someone else picks out for me just on principle.

Staceyacrawford

It was love at first sight for my vera wang dress - took me all of five minutes. Its been hanging in my closet for months. Yet Everyday she still sends me pics of other wedding dresses.... Why? Because of her ive bght 5 different bridesmaid dresses. Last night i just put my foot down. My two sisters are my other bridesmaids and they have no issues with anything. Im really getting annoyed.

Peledreamsofrain

Yeah, stop talking wedding with her, and stop responding to any e-mails she sends regarding dresses.  If she asks if you saw the dresses she sent you, respond vaguely "Oh, I'm not really looking at dresses anymore, sorry".

She'll get the clue.

rachelm13

Definitely cut her out of wedding talk.  I have major WP issues and I also have one of these ladies.  I feel your pain.  HANG IN THERE!!!

Staceyacrawford

Sad, right?