I don't get it with all the people getting their knickers in a bunch because their children were not invited to the wedding.
I keep seeing the same posts over and over again:
"so and so said they won't attend the wedding unless their kids are invited"
"so and so put their kids on the RSVP and say they won't come unless their kids can come"
"FMIL says so and so can't come because they can't find a babysitter for their kid"
I remember having babysitters ALL THE TIME as a kid. My parents went to weddings often (they had me when they were 22, so MANY friends got married while I was still a lil one). I never went to those weddings (except immediate family like my Aunt's, and I was the flower girl)
Did I miss something? Is it now not cool to leave your kid home with your parents or a sitter? Is this the affect of helicopter parenting? GO OUT WITHOUT YOUR KIDS! I also am seeing more and more kids at pubs after 9:00pm or at nice restaurants screaming and knocking into wait staff. Has the world gone bonkers??
Now- I know there are exceptions like a newborn or really small infant, and if all of the family is going to be at the wedding and they don't trust a non-family member with that young of a child. But for older kids, like 4, 5, 6, 7? What's the deal??