I must say when I started posting on TK I really thought many people were just down right nasty and rude. But as I go on and read other posts and other situations I realized that you guys really are here to just offer advice... and some damn good advice at that.
You see, the stress of planning and making everyone happy can get to a girl as i'm sure some of you may have experienced. I truly do appreciate being knock the hell down. All in all it really just made me happier and I have so much relief because I don't need to, or have the right to request anything of anyone in my WP or FIL's.
I spoke with my FI and he's happier than ever just with everything... especially the whole piercing thing.
He wanted to thank all you knotties! As well as I do.