When I began this process I thought that my mother-in-law and I might share the experience a bit. She has no daughter, I have no mother...and everyone (including my fiance) tell me how much alike she and I are.
BUT- she does not seem interested in the wedding at all.
I've known this now for a few months, but last night it started to bug me. Yea, I do long for a mother to share this with...and it was silly and perhaps wrong of me to think I could have a tiny bit of that with my FMIL...but it annoys me frankly that she is so ... underwhelmed by the details.
How involved (or not involved) is your FMIL? Do you even want her involved?
judge the non-traditional, pop their happy little wedding balloons... and sleep better tonight for you have made the world a better place.