I'm pretty sure almost everyone has an issue, big or small, with their in-laws or future in-laws. But I have an issue that makes me want to pull my hair out!
So my fiances family is really immature and they are very confusing when it comes to customs and traditions. He has three sister so far that are mothers, none of which are married. I know that surprises happen and people get pregnant before wanting marriage, but not many purposefully try to get pregnant right before they tie the knot.
I feel as if having babies is the only thing this family wants, none of them are even trying to achieve an education or even looking into getting a career. They work little jobs just to get by, and then push as any babies out as possible. On top of that, NONE of them are even fit to be parents.
This only started to bother me when they started to push me and my fiance to have children... My fiance loves kids, but hes really immature with them, and much to his surprise, I don't want kids! I know i am much too young and I don't have the maturity level to be a mom. He and I have talked about this for a while and have come to a mutual understanding that we are just starting out and are too young to be starting a family.
Even though their is an understanding among my man and I, I am still being pressured. Their not even asking nicely, they just keep asking "are you pregnant yet?" or "when you going to have kids? Dont you think it's time?"
I just want to yell at them! And tell them to f*ck off and focus on their own broken lives, and leave me be!
Anyone have a nice way to say back off? I have tried explaining to them that we aren't ready, but apparently it's not good enough!
~Soon to become Mrs. O'Kane!~