I have just had major brain surgery about 2 months ago now and at the beginning my moh was amazing you know not trying to push me to do too much planning and now that I'm feeling better and able to get out more she's becoming pushy and almost like she's putting down everything I have said I liked. I chose my colours a week or 2 ago and when I told her the colours she was like everyone will look like watermelons. We have decided on Jade for the groomsmen and bm dresses and the Watermelon for flowers and accents. I had also sent an email to all my girls asking them when they were free so that I could go dress shopping and have lunch with them cause they haven't really met. I have a moh, 2 bms, a jr bm, and flower girl. I then set the date and then sent a email asking what they were free that day and only one of my bms got back to me saying there was something that she wanted to go to in the afternoon so I made the appointments for 9:30 and 11:00 and when I told my moh she freaked saying I should know better that she has to get the kids ready and dressed. But yet she never got back to me and she has a husband that can do all that so she is now not coming and since then has been making me feel like every decision we make is awful. and I did take in to conseration that she has 2 small children but there was one appointment at 9:30 and then the next one was at 4:30 for the bms so that is why I chose the one at 9:30.
I feel like nothing I am doing can satasify her. Am I wrong to feel hurt and confused, when she got married she made all the appointments I even had to miss work for some of them and never once did I complain about it. But yet now it's my turn and she's trying to run it like it's her second chance at the wedding of her dreams she makes me feel so small and like I shouldn't share any more wedding ideas with her.