So me and my FI are still in college but he'll be done next year. We both have decent, for college students, jobs. I've got two and should be starting my thrid here soon. He's got companies fighting over him already so we aren't to worried about money or anything. Sorry that's usually the largest negative response I seem to get so thought I'd cook that goose first.
The true debate I've got going on in my head is should we keep our current date or just let it strech out for another year or so? I mean it's torture being apart and every time I'm with him I can't wait till I can see him and just be around him every day if only for a few minutes. Then I step back and look at how busy both of our lifes are. It's insane! I never thought I'd be working three jobs along with school. And the names of his classes now I can't even spell let alone pronounce them and they take so much work. He's so smart though he takes it like they're nothing. Then we both have great social lifes too..
I don't know. Life is good right now, really busy but good. We've had this date set for a long time now but next year is going to be just as if not more insane. It's making me kind of just want to enjoy what we have right now and hold off. And that is something I never thought I'd be saying. Though I really just want to be with him every moment that I can spare (we currently live an 40min and go to different schools, though there's a place inbetween we where planing to live in).
So I want your opinions ladies, change or keep the date? Please be nice, thank you ^-^
(No STD's or Invites have been sent btw)
What lies behind us, and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.
~ by Ralph Waldo Emerson ~