My "surprise" shower that I asked FMIL not to throw me is this weekend (the shower I am fine with, it's the surprise part I hate, I am not a surprise person at all). I clearly already know about it but she told me I'm not alowed to let anyone know that I know because lots of people worked very hard to help her plan it. I'm a HORRIBLE liar, even worse on the spot and I have no idea how I'm going to pull off acting surprised when I walk in.