So we have changed our wedding date now 3 (maybe 4) times to accomodate family (travel, schedules, medical conditions). Now we are being asked to reconsider our plans to have a brunch in favor of a dinner because a few people don't think they can "get there that early". I am the type that wants to please everyone, and truth be told - we are having an at-home wedding catered by a family member. It IS fairly easy to change and the cost difference would be minimal. BUT I'm starting to feel like it's never going to happen and that instead of it being "our day" we are catering to everyone else. (Does that sound selfish - I don't mean it to.) At what point do I just say "this is it, show up or don't"???
