I'm bored at work, so trying to get these boards moving! ;-)
How tall are you and your FI?
I'm somewhere between 5'7 and 5'8, and he's 5'8". I've always gone for taller guys (my ex-DH was 6'4"!), so it was kind of an adjustment for me in the beginning, but we fit well together in a spoon :-)
They didn't have you where I come from...never knew the best was yet to come...