Friday: Dear FI/DH

FireDancer04

Lets hear them ladies.

FireDancer04

Dear FI, You really need to sit down and write your best man speech. You need to stop making excuses, the wedding is NEXT weekend. Love, Your future wife

amandasblum

Dear FI, Stop leaving ALL the umbrella's at work so when it pours on days like today, we dont get stuck without them. PS. only 106 days we get married!!! Love, Me

Blldandi

Dear FI,Please stop leaving the windows and doors open while it rains.  Oh, and please call the roofer SOON.hugs and love,ME

spainerk

FI, I know that we figured out the flowers back in January, but the rest of our wedding has come together a bit more and some of the colors in the centerpieces might have to change a bit.  Roll with it.  You said that you didn't want to deal with the decorations part of the wedding so in order for things to look good, we might have to change the flowers a bit.  Me

Luv2Cook27

Dear FI,I am glad your shoulders are feeling better, but I am sorry, you deserve to be itchy.  You should have worn sunblock!Love,Me

Starfish724

Dear FI, I never asked you to understand everything about our wedding, like why I like peonies rather than roses, but I do ask that you accept it and stop asking me "why" every five seconds. Also, happy 1 year preversary! Love, Future Wifey

Gabs71109

Faredancer - my DH did the SAME thing when he was BM in a wedding 2 years ago. He wrote the speech the night before the wedding and it was *perfect*. As women we tend to be more organized but try not to stress. I am sure he will do a great job!

FireDancer04

His best friend, the groom has asked me to make sure he writes it and doesn't just do it on the fly. I know he won't but I do worry about it because I am supper organized.

Gabs71109

Oh I totally hear you! I would not want an off the cuff toast either. DH's brother/BM ALSO wrote his toast the night before. Just thought I would share.

Gabs71109

Dear DH,You should know that I am *not* excited to go and spend the weekend with your parents. I know it is the last time we will see them before Christmas but being with them stresses us both out and then we get snippy with each other. Let's promise to be nice to one another this weekend.Can't wait for my birthday dinner on Monday.Love you,Wifey

FireDancer04

Thanks Gabs....I'll *try* not to so pushy this week.

Gabs71109

Oh, don't get me wrong - I absolutely push DH when needed but this whole wedding process has just calmed me down a bit when it comes to the male "timeline" of things. You should have known me when he had not chosen his GMs or BM yet. It was driving me insane!!! I'll be anxious to hear how the toast comes out.

Mrs Babs

Dear FI,Please don't mock me when I'm in pain. I got stupid tendonitis in my shoulder exercising so I have a rockin body at our wedding and now I'm miserable and have to have physical therapy and take steroids that are going to make me blow up like a balloon. Please try to be a little more understanding...xoxome

Krystalynne21

Dear FI, I would LOVE if you started closing the cabinet doors so I don't walk head-on into them every morning when I wake up. And....please don't complain about wearing a turquoise tie for the wedding-at least I am not making you wear a matching vest. Love, Mrs. E to be!

rco118

Dear FI,I can't wait until the wedding is over either so we can go back to watching the red sox on the couch together.  I'm tired of spending my life on the computer too.  But thank you for being so supportive for losing your girlfriend into wedding planning mode and not adding to my stress.  Only two and half more months to go.I think we need a date night soon.  Please help me walk away from the planning.  I need to do it but I can't stop myself sometimes.One day we will be really glad we decided to get married in five months however painful it may be now.Love, Me

Alisha & Ryan

Dear Fi, Thank you for driving up to Portland with me tonight so I wouldn't have to go alone. Also I find it really cute that you don't want to see anything I'm wearing day of, I just get excited and want to show you stuff, lol, I mean they are just earrings I'm looking forward to spending time with your family tomorrow! love,me

sweetest thing

Dear FI,Now that we have a little more than a month to go, I REALLY need you to step up and do things when I ask you to. For example, we need to figure out the music -the band needs the paperwork next week!!! You've had it pretty easy so far - its crunch time now. Love you,Me

Arez16

Dear FI, Thank you for putting up with me and my little "breakdown" yesterday. You always make things so much better than they really are Also, I know you don't like that I don't like the job you just interviewed for, and I really hope you don't get it, no matter how bad that sounds. It would be a great opportunity if we were getting married in 2011, not 2010. The money is not enough, and I really don't think you will ever teach anyway. And I know there is something out there for you Love, your future wife

ericcaah

Dear FI, I know that money is tight, but we're going to be ok. You just can't keep spending money on tickets to sporting events, trips, and video games! I know moving this weekend is stressful, and it's not ideal living with your future MIL, but we're going to save SO much money and have our home with the white picket fence before we know it :)I can't wait for our week off together this week, and to spend time at the beach.Love, Your future wife (9 months from today!)  

chayer227

Dear FI -   Thanks for calling the tux place and for eventually calling the pastor (after giving me such a hard time about not wanting to call him myself - have I not done EVERYTHING else?), however this is just the tip of the iceberg, my dear.  Let's keep moving forward without complaints about stopping at craft stores for 5 minutes when we're driving right past them, ok?    It's not enough for you to just remind me of what needs to be done, but would help SO much more if you actually took action as well...  Oh, and stop trying to distract me from my work-out efforts - I know you can see it's working, and you're jealous, but how about getting your own butt in gear too?  Love,  your soon-to-be-really-hot-stuff-wife

san76dals

Dear FI, Call your effffing parents to discuss the rehearsal dinner. I know you hate this but GET IT DONE!!!! Thanks, your very annoyed FI