my fi and i are set to wed in oct the day before our 4 year anniversery. We recently had an argument over text messages he had in his phone. The problem is evertime we have down moments or things get rough he tends to turn to other women. This time the girl told me they had sex. I just moved to alabama with him which is his hometown an i have no fam here. This is not the first incident we have had with his talking to other women, but it hurts now becuase im planning our wedding for a second time an he knows he messes up but for some reason doesnt get that he is puting us at a big risk. I love him and we are good except for when he does stupid things like this.
Should we still wed and seek counseling or should i move back to tennessee and split the kids from there father? Do you think my marriage will be the same way?