Hi girls......I have a large wedding party. 8 bridesmaids/groomsmen,3 jr. bridemaids/groomsmen,1 flower girl/ring, 3 little ones helping in church. My bridesmaids are wearing eggplant and I was going to have the jr. bridesmaids wear lilac, but now I don't know. Will it look silly if they wear a d/f shade of purple or should they be wearing a d/f color. I dont want little girls wearing eggplant. Any suggestions?