Backstory, my ex, FI, his ex and I have all been friends for 9 years. For those entire 9 years, my ex has told me that FI's ex just uses me and is selfish. I'm one of those 'I see the good in everybody' people, and refused to believe it...even 8 years later when FI and I hooked up and he said the same thing.
Fastforward to last week. I had a stomach virus and the clutch in my car was going out, so I told her I couldn't make it to her bridal shower. She texted me several times with 'You HAVE to be there', so I showed. My 5 year old and I wound up stranded on the way home, so I texted her and let her know it was almost 11pm and I was stuck on the side of a highway. She never responded...even the next day, until around 8pm the next day when she wanted to know if I could bring something to the wedding. (Side note: She and her fiance both have now have my stomach bug, and she said she didn't respond to my text because she was 'Busy having sex, sorry')
Yesterday, she messages me and asks if she can come by and pick up my iPod that she asked to borrow weeks ago. Ceremony is today, and I needed to go get the stuff for sausage balls. I said yes....and waited up until after midnight for her to either show up or text me back. She didn't do either. Updated her facebook fifteen hundred times, but never bothered to let me know she wasn't coming by. I finally went to bed when her status said she was going to bed - couldn't get my kid out at almost 1am to go get sausage, thats for sure.
Today, she just sends me a message that says 'I'm sure you realize just how busy I've been. If you can bring it to the ceremony, that'd be great. I'll see you there.' Bring it to the ceremony? With what flippin' music on it?! Is she going to walk down the aisle to whatever is on my iPod? o.O And I know exactly how busy you are the days before a wedding, but if you can update your status fifteen hundred times you can TEXT a friend back after you asked them for a favor.
I so just want to stay home, but I convinced the ex to go with me and he'd probabl kill me if I didn't show up. /sigh.