When my fiance and I picked our wedding date he was so excited he sent save the dates to all his 'close' friends. Now, 7 months later, I'm getting the invitations ready and have realized he hasn't seen a few of those friends in months.
What's the etiquette here? He says if he hadn't sent them a save the date, he wouldn't be inviting them. Should we still be inviting them? I'm torn because we're asking ppl to travel for the wedding, which is a lot to ask when a friendship has cooled. They might be a bit ticked they're being asked to our wedding when he hasn't been spending any time with them; on the other hand, they might be ticked if they don't get an invitation as they did get a save the date.
I learned a valuable lesson and have passed it along to my newly engaged sister!
Thanks for any advice