A few days ago my FI and went to the Stock Show (it's a local event that happens once a year....has a carnival, food, and yes livestock). We were having a great time there and had decided to spent the last hour with his family. When we finally did meet up with them his brother and his brother's fiance ignored the both of us. When his sister came with her friends she called his brother so that he can play messenger and she completely ignored my Fiance (her brother). It doesn't bother me when people ignore me (I've gotten worse from my family), but why ignore a brother? I may not have agreed with my brother's last choice, but I didn't ignore her and I treated her with respect and I definately didn't ignore my brother. Not to mention that his brother seems to be competing with us as far as who get's married first. I don't care so long as the planning for my wedding comes out alright....to me getting married is not a competition but about celebrating a union of two people.