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advice needed

It seems ever since I got engaged, people have been treating me and my FI differently. like mostly being rude or snotty. and  it is  really is making me sad.   I was wondering if anyone else has been treated differently since their engagement? And If so .. any advice?
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Re: advice needed

  • What, exactly, are they treating you differently?
  • I agree with PP.  WHO is treating you differently, HOW are they treating you differently, and in WHAT situations is this occurring?
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  • Ditto pp.
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  • How old are you? I wonder if they're being snotty to you or just contemptuous. 
  • I'm also wondering how old you are.  The only reason I can think of that someone might treat an engaged couple differently is if they're very young, like under 20.
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  • I'm 32 FI is 28.

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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_advice-needed-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:a67af762-f7d6-4ae5-977e-9df96f341d30Post:cdff9905-a35c-47dd-9b11-c9d97b116750">Re: advice needed</a>:
    [QUOTE]I'm 32 FI is 28.
    Posted by Sarahtobeengaged[/QUOTE]

    You still need to explain more.....
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  • Do you talk about things other than your wedding?  I get annoyed when the only thing engaged people talk about is their wedding and I start to avoid contact with them.
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