Hi All, This is going to be a kinda long post but I really need advice on my Maid of Honor.
So after the wedding we were cleaning up and mentioned to the MOH that she needed to take back rental items. She was fine with it, or so it seemed at the time. I then forgot about another item and dropped them off as we headed out of town for the honeymoon. She called my cell to inquire since the website didn't show return times for the rental place and it looked as if she couldn't drop them off on Monday. She might have called me twice about it but I don't quite remember. Anyways apparently it was just too much for her to return in her in SUV although it fit into my car on the way out. She them called my mother to discuss with her about this return and how she was possibly going to manage this. My parents happened to have a medical appointment on the Tues in the city and so eventually made plans to pick up what she couldn't return on the Tues and take it back to the rental place in their car.
Now the issue I have is our current relationship. To give background we have been friends for a number of years. 6 years ago she had her first child and got post partum depression. I went over once a week to watch the baby while she went out, slept, showered whatever she essentially wanted to do. we have continued to have weekly nights together as a chance to visit, with the odd one cancelled here and there. The issue that I am having though is since I got back from the honeymoon she has cancelled every week except for one that i needed to cancel since i was working out of town. And yesterday since I was at my grandfather's funeral. She has also subsequently cancelled next week already. Her son's 6th birthday is this weekend as well and I have yet to miss either of the kids parties and haven't received an invitation.
we have had the occasional email back and forth since this time and i did have a short person to person conversation since the wedding and just thought that maybe we needed some time. However a friend of mine invited her to my birthday lunch which also happened this week and she just said something about not coming and a comment still about the whole decoration fiasco. So today i looked back on her facebook and while I was on my honeymoon she posted on her wall "Anyone thinking of asking me to be in their bridal party.... Don't.....!!!! Yes I know the wedding took time out of her life and is a big financial commitment however due to her complaints about finances during the wedding planning I did pay for her dress and hair and felt i was being reasonable but this is a one sided post after all.
So my question is what do I do?