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I am new to this whole things. still have not got the concept down that i am engaged and gettin married n months. we have already almost called the wedding off once. still not sure if we was suppose to or if i am just gettin the nerves alreadys. seems like my fiance dont want "anything" to do with this wedding unless if he wants to add something to it.
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    What is your question?
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    I dunno sounds like it may be a case of cold feet or something. Maybe you need to sit down and talk with your FI. Communication is the big part of a healthy, happy marriage.
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    It sounds like you are looking for someone to tell you whether or not to marry this guy.  Only you know the answer to that.  Talk with him and don't rush. 
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    Ditto PPs. Talking to your FI is the only way your concerns will get resolved. It sounds like you need to have a serious discussion with him before you say your vows.
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    If you have any doubts at all over whether you should get married, you shouldn't.  It's a major commitment, and you should be 150% sure that it's what you want before you do it.  It's a hell of a lot less painful (and expensive!) to call off a wedding than to go through a divorce.
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    Honestly? With the way you type (text talk) it sounds like you are young. Regardless of your age, I would suggest having a serious heart-to-heart with your fiance' and maybe get some pre-marriage counseling. It is not designed to make you question whether you want to get married. It's designed to help you learn to communicate well with your fiance', and find ways to work out problems as they come up through your marriage (and they will).

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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_new-2-this?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:b6963e2d-c53b-4768-b568-0d333cc2a7c9Post:679609e3-075e-44cb-ae60-06e5e4c8378e">new 2 this</a>:
    [QUOTE]I am new to this whole things. still have not got the concept down that i am engaged and gettin married n months. we have already almost called the wedding off once. still not sure if we was suppose to or if i am just gettin the nerves alreadys. seems like my fiance dont want "anything" to do with this wedding unless if he wants to add something to it.
    Posted by lreNkmd[/QUOTE]

    Congrats on your engagment! Check out the Just Engaged board, you may find some comfort there! :)
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    I might want to call MUD on this one...
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_new-2-this?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:b6963e2d-c53b-4768-b568-0d333cc2a7c9Post:246ea364-41c4-4dcd-aa3d-9bc148323718">Re: new 2 this</a>:
    [QUOTE]Honestly? With the way you type (text talk) it sounds like you are young. Regardless of your age, I would suggest having a serious heart-to-heart with your fiance' and maybe get some pre-marriage counseling. It is not designed to make you question whether you want to get married. It's designed to help you learn to communicate well with your fiance', and find ways to work out problems as they come up through your marriage (and they will). Nobody can tell you what to do here. If you love him, and the relationship is worth fighting for, do the work. It will be worth it.
    Posted by dittmerbullard2010[/QUOTE]

    this, exactly this!
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